Brian Ruzich Obituary

Dear Dave,Judy & Melissa,



I was so sorry to hear about Brian's death. He was such a special person and touched everyone that he came in contact with in some way.



He was always so cheerful and friendly and never walked past you without smiling and saying hello. I am thankful that I knew him and will miss him. I'm glad he was part of my life.

Dearest Dave, Judy, Melissa, and Bushia:

It has now been a month since Brian has passed and not a day goes by that I do not think of him. He is in my thoughts all day and all night. He was the biggest part of my life and will always be. There were too many things that I loved about him, but most of all that contagious laugh and beautiful smile that could light up an entire room. He was amazing person and the world was a better place because he was in it. Brian and I have known each other since we were in high school. He was a great friend and like my big brother. The world is definately going to miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of great loss.

to the Ruzich family

I just wanted to once again send my deepest sympathy from myself and my parents. Brian was truly one of the nicest guys I know, and even though he is now gone his legacy lives on. If there is anything you need please do not hesitate to call.

I was shocked when I learned of Brian's passing so suddenly. I met Brian in high school through the drama department, and later was on the pom team with Melissa. Brian was one of the funniest people I knew in high school, I will never forget his jovial laugh and ability to reach out to people. He had such a great life presence, people seemed drawn to him at times. I know I am just one of many who is now praying for him.

Brian had become my life line through my difficult times. I am almost 8 months pregnant and I called him with every worry on my mind. I had spoken to him a few days after the 4th of July because I was having complications. I never even knew he passed away. I found out through a friend after reading an online message. He was an amazing person. He always made sure me and the baby was okay. He called almost every day. He even let me call at all hours of the night if the baby was keeping me awake. I never had someone care so much for me as he did. I was on bed rest for the month he passed away and I am deeply sorry I wasn't able to attend his funeral. I cared for him very much. My deepest sympathies to his parents and his sister, Melissa. They are great people. He was an outstanding friend and he will always be in my heart.

Brian was an amazing individual who touched many lives. Working on shows at Noll with Brian are some of my very favorite moments in my life. His smile was able to brighten any room he entered. I am deeply saddened to learn of his passing and extend my sympathies to the Ruzich family.

I knew Brian through Melissa, with whom I spent much time with in Latin class at Bishop Noll, and was very sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with the whole Ruzich family.

I am still in shock and greatly saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I haven't seen him since high school where we worked on the newspaper and in theatre together. My deepest sympathy to the Ruzich family. He will be greatly missed.

Brian accepted me for who I am and I will never forget the times that he helped me when I needed someone. Whether it was a phone call to check up on me, or inviting me to one of his get togethers for laughs, dinner, and drinks. I'll miss him dearly.

If it is true that when the curtain goes up on eternity all men must approach the gates bearing in their arms that which they have given in life, the people of the theatre will march in the procession carrying the pure pearls of tears, the gold of laughter, and the diamonds of stardust they spread on what might otherwise have been a rather dreary world. When at last all stand before the final stage door, I am sure the keeper will say, "Open let my children in." ....I was fortunate enough to have shared 3 seasons of shows through the years with Brian and the Pennsylvania Avenue Players. I was very fond of him and his work. Brian even at such a young age was truly a Gentleman. My family ,and I always thought highly of him. To the Family and Melissa, God is with you.

Dave, Judy and Melissa,



My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. May God bless you and give you strenth and comfort.



Maurice

I hardly knew Brian when I was at Bishop Noll, but during my time at IUN, I would often run into Brian, and he always took the time to stop and talk with me about school and how things were going. It is truly a rare individual who shows such a caring demeanor towards someone he hardly knew before. I am deeply saddened by the loss of Brian. I offer my deepest sympathies to the Ruzich family.

To the Ruzich Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Brian was a great friend: someone who could brighten anyone's day and who would always be there for you. He touched so many lives and will always be remembered. I, like so many others, wish I could have been there to tell Brian, "thank you" for the impact he had on my life. My prayers are with you in this most dificult time.

To the Ruzich Family,

My deepest sympathy on your loss.

I met Brian when I transferred to St. John the Baptist school. He quickly became a dear friend, who accepted me at a time when others did not. Although I left the Whiting area, I was blessed with the opportunity to meet up with Brian during high school and college. It was on these occasions that I was able to see what a lovely young man Brian had grown to be. Although it's been a few years since I last had contact with Brian, I still think of him often. I offer my deepest sympathy to the Ruzich family.

Dear Judy & Family....I did not know Brian but I do know Judy...my most heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family...I know the pain and devastation that you are feeling.....have Faith in God, that is what will get you through this most difficult time !!!! Sincerely..Beverly (Marc K Salon )

Dear Ruzich Family,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Brian. He truly was one of the kindest people that I have ever known. We were at Bishop Noll at the same time, and I worked closely with him in Student Council and other activities. I know that he will be remembered as a vibrant, fun, and loving young man. I will never forget his kindness and friendship. My condolences to your family.

I haven't seen Brain in a very long time, but still the news of his passing came as a devastating shock. I was in Theater with Brian at Bishop Noll and I remember him as such a sweet and caring guy. I was searching through my pictures from high school the other day and came upon a picture of Brian with a huge smile on his face, and that is how I will forever remember him. He will be deeply missed by everyone that knew him.

To the Ruzich Family,

We were saddened to read of the loss of your son. Our deepest sympathy to all, and may Our Lord give you the grace, understanding and strength to carry on. Our thoughts and prayers are for you and Brian. Sincerely, Sam, Pat, Bert and Mark Grasso

When I think of Brian, I think of his welcoming smile that he always had for everyone. He was a warm and friendly person and he will be greatly missed. He has left us with many great memories.

Tysha

Eventhough I hadn't seen Brian in sometime, there wasn't much time that passed when my thoughts didn't turn to him. At Noll, Brian was full-hearted, funny and was always involved with something. May his spotlight shine on forever, heaven is now his stage.

Dave,Judy, and Melissa,my thoughts and prayers are with you. You have always been so kind and helpful to others,and now it is our turn to be there for you. You were blessed with beautiful children who brought you so much joy and happiness. Feel comfort in the memories of all that you share in life. Bless Brian,and your family.

Dear Ruzich Family,



I saw your son 3 weeks ago while I was in Geffert's Hardware getting parts. We spoke briefly for 10 mins ketching up on time we haven't seen each other probably since St. John. I was shocked to read this information. I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

To Brian's family,

I was truly saddened when I heard about Brian's passing. I knew Brian at Bishop Noll and have many memories from our time in the school musicals back then. What I remember most about him is his laugh. It was very contagious and could brighten someone's day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I was so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. He was such a gentle soul and a truly great friend. I will keep his family and friends in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Allison Gunty

Dear Busia,

We know how much you loved Brian and how proud you were of him.

We would like to express our sympathy to you and hope you know how much we love you.

May God bless and watch over you.

Love,

Joe, Pat (Stella)& Heather

Dear Dave, Judy & Melissa,

There are no words that can express the sorrow we feel in our hearts. We have been friends since Melissa & Heather were in pre-school. You always treated Heather as a member of your family and we considered Brian & Melissa as a part of ours.

Brian was a wonderful young man. We will miss his great laugh, wonderful smile and his genuine concern for people. He was always there to greet you with a hug, kiss and a kind word.

We don't know why God took him at this time. I'm sure he had a plan for him.

I'm sure he is in heaven singing and performing in a play for his Grandmother and Auntie Pearl.

We will miss him. God Bless and keep all you in his care.

Love,

Joe, Pat (Stella)& Heather

Dearest Dave, Judy, Melissa, & Dorothy,

Words cannot possibly express our most deep felt sympathy for all of you at this most difficult time. We cannot begin to know and feel the pain you are feeling. The loss of a child has to be unbearable. We have lots and lots of memories of Brian to keep tucked away in our hearts, and for that reason we must all somehow find a way to go on. Even though the distance has kept us apart, Dave, Judy, Melissa and Dorothy, you have been in our hearts and our thoughts constantly. For instance, the day we chaperoned the kids on the field trip, or the video tape that you made for us on your first trip to visit us. Well, that tape is worn down to the bone from watching it so much. How about the time the kids rode on a float in the 4th of July Whiting parade. These are all special memories that we can hold on to for the rest of our lives. Please know that we love you all so very much and always will. We are most certainly sharing your pain. Our only regret is not being there with you in this most painful time of your lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Brian, you made a mark on our lives that we will never let go of. Thank you for the memories.

Sincerely with all our love,

Ruzich Family: I was in nursing school with Brian at IUN. He was a very kind young man, and always went out of his way to include and be friendly to everyone. I haven't spoken to him since college, but am deeply saddened by his passing. God bless Brian, and may God be with you through these difficult times.

Jodi Wright

I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. I went to St. John and Bishop Noll with Brian. He always made me laugh and had a good thing to say about everyone. I am lucky to have met a great person in Brian. Again, I am sorry to hear about his passing.

I was so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I haven't seen Brian since high school. We worked on the newspaper together. He will be dearly missed. My deepest sympathies are with his family in this very difficult time.

I don't know where to start...Melissa you're one of my best friends in the whole world and Brian was like another brother to me. I can't imagine the pain you and your family feel,just remember you're not alone and we're all here for you with whatever you need.Brian was a great person and most of all a great friend. I will always remember with a smile on my face the times we all had together.I love you Mel.

The news of Brian's death came as an absolute shock. He was a wonderful person--very funny, giving, and loving. He was a very dear friend and I will miss him. I am deeply saddened that I will not be able to attend the wake or the funeral as I am out of the country. I want to offer the Ruzich family my love and support. My prayers are with you.

Sorry for your loss. There is never enough one can say that makes it any less painful. Brian was not only a friend but like a big brother to a lot of us. He was there when you needed him to be. My prayers are with your family and Melissa if you need anything I am here.

Dave and Judy,

I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved son, Brian. I ran into Brian a few times at a restaurant and although he only knew me through the times we had spent together when the kids were younger with our mutual friends, Mario and Angie, he came right up to me to say hello, gave me a hug and asked how the family was. It always touched my heart. I pray that God will give you strength and courage during this most difficult time, and I hope you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Brian. I know how proud you both are to have had him for your son. May God watch over all of you and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Offering you my deepest condolences during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

My dear freinds; Dave, Judy "Ma" and Melissa

When there are no words, as now, there is love and prayers. Please know our hearts are with you now, as always have been, and we pray for your strength and endurance. We hope your memories of your beautiful son Brian will offer some peace to you. I've already asked Kate to show him around the Kingdom. All our love, Nancy and Joe.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Melissa, I hope you know you can call me and Jen at any time if you should need anything. I am so sorry about your loss. Brian will be deeply missed.

Dearest Cousins Judy, David, Melissa, and Auntie Dorothy. I am so sad about losing Brian. He was such a great person - always laughing, helping others, and so kind. I always remember him saying "You want this, take it - it's OK, just take it," or "What do you need? I'll get it for you. Do you need something else?" This is a great loss for the Ruzich, Hylek and Wysocki families. With my heartfelt sympathy and love to each of you, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of deep sadness.

Dear Family,

I remember David as a student at Bishop Noll when he was a student of mine in an English class. David was very conscientious, and most pleasant. I am truly sorry to hear of his passing. I suspect that he is smiling on all of us.

My prayers are with his family and friends.

Mrs. Poi

Dear Dave, Judy & Melissa; As family, words cannot describe the pain we feel for you! We here are all so, so sorry for your loss! Our entire family has been through so much in the last few years, and I just want you to know that there is a special place in Heaven for Brian!

Dave, you've always been there for me, and I want you to know, I will always be there for you! THAT'S WHAT FAMILY IS FOR.

With all my love....Gary

I haven't seen Brian in a fairly good amount of time. However I was deeply saddened to hear the news of his passing at such a young age. He was always an exemplary model of what people should aspire to be, and one of the many bright spots during my days at BNI. Brian you will be deeply missed, and Melissa and Mr and Mrs Ruzich: the world is now a better place because Brian was in it. My condolences to you all.

DEAREST DAVE, JUDY, MELISSA, AND DORTHY,

I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS OUR FOR YOUR FAMILY.

IT DOESNT SEEM SO LONG AGO THAT WE ALL MEET AND WERE SOME OF THE BEST OF FRIENDS! BRAIN WAS A WONDERFUL FRIEND, AND I WILL ALWAYS CHEERISH THE MEMORIES THAT WE SHARED BOTH IN WHITTING AND CALIFORNIA TOGETHER.

Warmest thoughts and prayers to all that have lost such a wonderful man. I lost touch with Brian after high school but I heard many good reports about him through the grapevine. He always had a way to make anyone smile even those that did not know him very well. To all that were dear to Brian be comforted by his memories here and find ways to feel some peace in knowing that Heaven has beckoned its angel back home. GOD BLESS!!!

As I sit crying, I remember working with Brian in the kitchen at St Margarets. He was not only an excellent worker, a wonderful friend but a very caring person always with a smile on his face. He came to know my husband and children and every time he saw one of us he always asked about everyone.I have not worked with him in years but I will always remember him. I can not imagine the grief you must be experencing. But I too, not as a relative but as someone who knew Brian am deeply saddened, I can not believe he has left us physically but never in our hearts. My deepest sympathy goes to Brians whole family and everone else that loved him. Sharon Menatos

I was absolutely crushed to hear about Brian's passing. I first met Brian in a production of "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat" in Highland when he was probably 16 years old and thought he was one of the nicest and most mature kids around. I next saw him years later and he still remembered me and had grown into an equally nice young man. I hope all can take some measure of consolation in the lives he touched with his friendly demeanor. He will certainly be missed.

betty j jones

Melissa! baby girl, I know there is no words to say to ease your pain, so I am offering my condolence. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Love you. and we are here fo you

Brian, you will be missed more than you could ever know. I will always remember your sense of humor, and the way your laugh could make everyone smile. Even though it's been awhile, I can't believe I'll never see you again. I will always remember and miss you.

To my dearest and closest friends, Dave,Judy and Melissa. There is no place to start and no words to write that can express my sympathy. I have loved Brian when he was a hope and dream of yours. He was a big brother to Mario and Gina and Mario and I loved him like a son. Our families have a forever closeness and the only consolation is God must have needed him for something very important in heaven to take him so young. Our whole family feels like an empty shell stricken with grief and sadness. M.J.(as Brian called him) and Gina are heart broken as are Mario and I. The thought of entering the compound and not seeing Brian's smiling face is far more then anyone should have to bare. It seems like yesterday when Mario and Brian were sitting in my living room playing with their Masters of the Universe Christmas presents while looking at Gina and Melissa fairly grossed out, playing with the New Kids on the Block stage. Or how about horseback riding and go-carts at Wisconsin Dells. And how could we ever forget that skiing trip over Thansgiving week-end in California. I could think up a thousand wonderful things to say about this young man we all loved so much. Brian was a great kid and grew to such a wonderful young man. When I was going through a very tough time with my brother dying of cancer, he would stop by the hospital at night to check on me. Good luck to anyone trying to find a young person with so much caring and concern to take time out of their schedule for someone else. Brian would call and e-mail just to see how everyone was. The world will suffer a loss because I can assure you, there can be no nurse on this planet with the sincerity and kindness that our Brian just naturally possessed. He was kind, loving and respectful at all times. Of course knowing Dave and Judy, how could he be otherwise. Life has delt all of us a terrible blow and all we are left to do is remember his big smile and all the joy he gave us during his far too short stay on earth. I can tell you even though he is gone, there is no chance of him ever being forgotten. I pray all who know you Dave and Judy, will give you all the support you need to get through this life altering experience. God Bless Dave, Judy, Melissa and Dorothy and just know we are forever here for you.

Love

Angie, Mario, Gina and M.J.

I went to high school with Brian. He was one of the sweetest guys I knew at Bishop Noll. I just saw him within the year and it was nice to catch up on what was going on with him. It saddens me and he will be greatly missed.

We were shocked and so saddened to learn of Brian's passing! He was a wonderful young man - kind, caring, funny, trusting, and the best friend a person could ever ask for. We met him years ago when our daughter, Allison, did shows with Brian when they both were active in Pennsylvania Avenue Players. He was so kind to her, and so caring and he was just the best kind of friend. Though we lost track of him in these later years as they grew up and went their separate ways, we are sure he became that same kind of man. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Please know you are in our prayers. Remembering Brian fondly, Buzz and Diane Gunty

David, Judy, and Melissa my deepest sympathies go out to you and the rest of your family in these hard times. I knew Brian for the past few years and he has been one of the best friends I've ever had. He was there for me through some very tough times in my life always offering his support and love and a shoulder to cry on. I cannot tell you what an enormous impact he has made on my life. I feel blessed for having the chance to know him. R.I.P. Brian you will always be in my heart

Dear David, Judy & Melissa;

Please accept my deepest condolences. Brian touched many in his short time on earth. I have so many special memories, which I will always cherish. The world's loss is now Heaven's gain!

Love & Prayers;

Miss Terri Bigheart

Though I only met Brian earlier this month at a BBQ, I truly feel blessed to have known him. God has called home to His kingdom, one of His best. Dave, Judy, and Melissa - my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I hadn't seen Brian for a very long time, but each time I did see him he always had that huge smile and a warm hug to give. He will always have a special place in my heart and so will the memories I have of him.

My deepest sympathies go out to the entire family. I am so sorry about your loss - I remember Brian from St. John's. Though we weren't the closest of friends, this is unfortunate and my heart goes out to all of you....

Brian always had a friendly "hi" to say to everyone. He went to school with my daughter Stacey Jurek. I will always remember his kindness to me and his smile. God Bless.

David,Judy,and Melissa, I'm deeply deeply sorry for your loss of Brian. He was a wonderful, loving, and caring person. There are no words to describe the pain that you all are going through. But god gives us the power of strength and courage and will help you in this difficult time. You truely have my deepest sympathy and are in my prayers. Love, Anne

Dave, Judy and Melissa Diane and I and the girls extend to you our deepest sympathy, love and friendship. We are so sorry for the passing of your dear son Brian. We enjoyed watching Brian grow from a schoolboy into adulthood. Diane and I recalled many memories of Brian on Tuesday. He was such a kind, thoughtful, friendly and well-mannered young man. We recalled Brian in his leather pants, with a cigar and drink in hand making the rounds, dancing and having a great time at one of your family holiday parties. We love you, will miss you and will never forget you Brian. Dale and Diane

BRIAN GOD WILL BE SO FORUNATE TO HAVE YOU AMONGST HIS ANGELS. YOU WILL BE MISSED KEEP AN EYE ON US YOUR FELLOW PEERS WE LOVE YOU WONDERFUL HEART AND MISS YOU DEEPLY

I have known Brian for over ten years now, and I cannot imagine coming home to visit without seeing him. Brian's place was always the first place I went once I reached home, and it's going to be impossible to come back without seeing him. He's been a light in my life since I was 13 years old. He was my confirmation sponsor, my shoulder to cry on, and a great source of support. I extend my sympathies to Melissa and the rest of the family, and I will try my best to make the trip to say goodbye.

Brian was a dear friend of mine. What I will remember most of all is his loving friendship personallity. I went to several of his parties and each time I arrived, I was greeted with a smile, hug, and kiss(in that order). I felt welcomed and all of my probloms seem to disappear because his house was a haven for friendship. "Mike, don't worry about it, go relax and have a drink and we talk about it." he would say. I am greatful and thankful of his friendship to me, it is sometime I will remember for the rest of my life. May you now rest in God's peace.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all, God bless Brian.

I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a dear friend to all my children and myself. I will pray for all of you.