Brian Cross Obituary

Dear daddy, I am about to be 20 years old in just a month. The age that you were when you were taken away from me and Brian. We needed you and wanted for you more than you´ll ever know. In these years I have never wanted anything more than to hear your voice again, to be able to come home and tell my dad about school, my first job, friends, ask you on advice about boys, or be able to talk to you when me and mom would bicker. You have no idea the toll of losing you has taken on not only me and my brother, but papa gram and uncle rob too. And when we lost Mandy as well it ripped our hearts straight from us. She was the glue that held us together , the fuel that lit the flame we call family. I miss you guys so much... everyday...not a day goes by that we don´t grieve you both. Im just writing here to let you know how much, and that we will never let your legacy die. There are times where I felt hopeless, and wondered why you had to be taken from us when we needed you most, but I will always try to follow in my auntie´s footsteps and be the strongest woman I can for her, you, my grandparents, momma, and my siblings. I am so lucky to have had such an amazing family growing up, even though I didn´t have you they always made me feel so loved, wanted and seen. I love you so much daddy. And I miss you more than anything. I hope your with me always.
Love your eldest daughter,
Liliana Rose

Happy 23rd Birthday, my beloved beautiful son. I love you and miss you today and everyday. I long to hold you close. Until we are together again, I will be all and give all that I can to your precious children. They are the greatest gifts you have evr given me. Please continue to watch over all of us. And put in a good word for me to God, so when my time comes, I can get straight to you. I love you. MAMA

Hey Bro,

Still missing you everyday of my life.. I was sad about Tommy Duggan, but he has you and Ralphy to show him the ropes up there... I wish more than anything in this world to see you again.. My life is empty as hell with-out my bro in it. At least I have Lily and Jr. to keep me smiling. Miss ya and Love ya....

My beloved son... Not a day, an hour, or a minute has passed that I don't grieve for you since you went away. My heart has been ripped from my chest and it went with you to Heaven. I miss you so much and still listen for your key in the back door when the house grows silent at night. I long to see you, touch you, hold you, and be with you. Until we meet again, I promise I will be the best mama to Mallory. I will be the best Grandma to Lily and little Brian. My God...he looks just like you. But I know that you are watching them from beyond and you already know that. They will grow up learning what a kind and sensitive father they had. They will know of your love for all of us. The grandkids, Mallory, Daddy, Robin, and Mandy...these are the reasons I cannot join you just yet. If God will let you visit, please do. I just want to know that you are alright and I want to tell you I love you. I love you so deeply...as much in death as I did in life. I want you to come back to me my baby. I will see you soon. If one year down here is just a minute up there I should be with you again in less than twenty minutes. I love you, Brian. MAMA

Brian Alan (can't get mad for that), Just wanted to congratulate you. The baby is so precious! He looks just like you (I'm sure you know that =) ). I know you are looking down and not missing a moment of this. I just wish you were doing it from here. I love and miss you sooooo much. Know that I'm here for Lilly and Brian, and I'll do anything and everything I can for them 2 kids - I love them too much. I miss you so much. I don't know that I ever told you enough or at all...but you know. Stay close to mallory & the kids... they need you. And of course, stay with Mandy...she really needs you....more than anyone will ever know...you are her pride and joy and she needs to feel you close. She's being a wonderful auntie, the kids couldn't ask for better! OK OK. I'll see you soon B. LOVE YOU!

Gus - Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and your family. You have so many people who love you. I'm glad that I had some time at Christmas with you. I know you are at peace now watching down on us. Love & miss you!!

Gus-man,



I'll think about you everyday for the rest of my life. You have my word that I will always look after Mallory and the kids for you. I would give anything in the world to have you back with us.. I love you so much, brother..

To The Cross,

Just wanted to send my sympathy. I didnt know him that well. May GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU IN THIS ROUGH TIME. SINCERELY SASHA FROM LINCOLN TECH

To Rob and the whole Cross family and also Mallory, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all of you. Be strong and know that Brian is in a good place. It is a shame that his baby will grow up without her father. My heart goes out to her.

Dear Rob and family,

I have you all in my thoughts and prayers.. This comes so close to the loss of another great friend to you Rob... Our friend Ralphy..I pray you and your family find the strength to get through each day during this time of sadness... and think of those words you have expressed so dearly to the family of your friend Ralphy.. may those same words help you and your family find peace within all of your hearts...

Love

Michelle Varvaris

To the Cross family,Were all sorry for your loss,Brian was a great friend to all of us.We just want you to know that you are always in our prayers.We love and miss you Brian!!



Love Kary,Marcus and Angelica Manzo

Were sorry for your loss you are in our thoughts and prayers.

To The Cross Family:



You are in my prayers during this difficult time. May God be with you.

To the Cross family

My deepest sympathies to all of you. I know that this tragedy is very difficult to understand and to deal with, but may God be with all of you during this time. If you guys need anything, just know that I am here for you.



To Brian

I love you, Bro. Not a day will pass that you will not be in my thoughts. Until we meet again... I miss you.



Love Always,

Eric

To the Cross Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.Brian was a great friend to all of us that knew him. Mallory,keep your head up,you are one of my best friends and you know that you can always count on me or on any of your friends. Same goes for the Cross family.Brian was a great friend to all of us and we will always keep him in our prayers.He will always be remembered and never forgotten.

From all his friends that

love him.

Dear Dee and Family,

May God Bless you and give you the strength to get through this difficult time.He is the only one that can help you through.He will guide you when the nights are long...

Love Elizabeth Boladz and family

To Nicky, Rob, Robin and Amanda,



My daughters and I offer our deepest condolences over the loss of your son and brother. Your family will be in our prayers.



Love, your cousins,

Kristen, Emmarie and Annaliese

TO the Cross Family,I would like to let you know that you have my deepest sympathy and I know losing a son, a brother and to Lily isn't the easiest thing in the world,but remember they're alot people griving to because they lost a friend.To amanda it is okay to be strong but it's also okay to let it all out just continue to be the wonderful aunt that you are to lily and your unborn newphew because they just aunt mandy........ love you all tasha

I want to tell you how sorry I was to hear about your son. It can't be easy to lose a child but just remember all the good times that you had with him. You are in my prayer everyday and also God is looking out for you and your family





Love

your consin Sue