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1938
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2021
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Barbara McCleave Obituary
Barbara A. (Wilson) McCleave passed away on Friday, September 03, 2021 at a local health care facility.
Barbara was born October 22, 1938 in Grant City, Missouri to Austin and Nellie (Scott) Wilson.
She married John H. McCleave, January 31, 1959.
Barbara worked for the Social Security Administration. She was a member of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church.
She was preceded in death by her parents, husband John, daughters Mary Lou and Kelly, and brother, Eddie Wilson.
She is survived by daughters; Tammy (Randy) Milbourn, Kathleen (Don) Lee, and Michele (Mike) Thomas.
Grandchildren; Ben (Colleen) Milbourn, Tim (Brandi) Milbourn, Taylor (Ryan) Hayes, Donnie Lee, Makena, Lauren, and Henry Thomas. Great-grandson; Joshua Milbourn, great-granddaughter; Samantha Milbourn. Step-great-grandchildren; Sydney, Ty, Faith, J.J. and Alyssa. Sister-in-law; Ethlyn McCleave and Mary Lee Sweet. Nieces, nephews, cousins, and many friends.
She loved her family dearly and loved helping others.
Mass of Christian Burial 10:00 AM, Tuesday, September 14, 2021 at Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church. Interment Mount Olivet Cemetery. A parish rosary will be recited at 5:30 PM, Monday evening at Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel where the family will receive friends from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m.
The family suggests memorial be made to; Mosaic Cancer Center in honor of Dr. Ed Andres, Camp Quality, Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church or Mosaic Hospice.
Memories and Condolences
for Barbara McCleave
Eva Blessing
September 22, 2021
She was a good friend. She and my sister Verda and I had good times when we were young. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Todd Saverino
September 13, 2021
What a wonderful lady. Mother of my first true girlfriend. Words cant say enough about her. Will be truley missed. God bless
Theresa Freeman
September 13, 2021
I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. She was a true Chiefs fan. When my son, Corey, was young she used to stop him after church and they would talk about them. God be with your family.
Donna Hoff
September 12, 2021
Barbara was a "Unique" and caring person. Helping others gave her great joy. I was fortunate to be one of her friends. I will miss her .
Mary Harr
September 6, 2021
Barbara was a Central High School classmate, and for many years worked tirelessly planning class reunions. I am sorry for your loss.
beverly widner
September 5, 2021
Barbara was one of the most giving and caring people I have known. Always thinking of others, I am sure she is one of Gods angels bringing joy to everyone. Rest in peace love. Beverly Widner
Mary Alice Hill
September 5, 2021
Barbara McCleave was a wonderful woman -- very loving, caring, and kind. The world is a better place because of Aunt Barbara and I will miss her.
Di Smith
September 5, 2021
She was the kindest aunt I could have asked for! I will truly miss her and her kindness.
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Sep
13
Rosary
5:30 p.m.
Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506
Sep
13
Visitation
6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.
Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506
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