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Arlene Olander Obituary

Olander, Arlene E. 63, of Sun City, Huntley, formerly of Chicago and Rolla, MO., at rest June 24, 2006, beloved wife of Robert D. "Bob" Tucker, loving mother of Gib (Meg) Olander of Bollingbrook, proud grandmother of Ted and Julia Olander, cherished daughter of the late Walter and Margaret Laskowski, dear sister of Marjory (Ray) Barry, Virginia Waskel, and Walter Laskowski. Mass of Christian Burial, 10 a.m., Wednesday, June 28th, at St. Mary Catholic Church. 10307 Dundee/Huntley Rd., Huntley, Visitation Tuesday, 4 to 8 p.m., at James A. O'Connor Funeral Home, 11603 E. Main St., Huntley (due to construction, please use Rt. 47 to Mill St. to Myrtle St. to funeral home parking lot). In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the American Cancer Society. For information and directions, 847-669-5111

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jun. 26, 2006.

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Janet Hacker

June 27, 2006

Gib, Meg, Teddy, Julia & Uncle Bob,

We all have such wonderful memories of a great lady that has touched all of our lives and made us better people because of it. We will cherish these memories and carry her in our hearts as we go on knowing she is watching over us and helping us to be the best we can be. I love you all.

Janet

Meg Olander

June 27, 2006

Bob, I am so sorry for you loss. I was thinking the other day about watching sweet moments between you and Arlene- from across the room you two would be giggling on the couch in Rolla or at a family gathering or out to dinner or just anywhere.. and I always thought how cute you two were together. She loved you so much and I know how much you loved her- We are very sad for your loss.

Terri & Te palermo

June 27, 2006

Mr. Bob & Gib and family,

Arlene (AO) was the greatest friend and person a anyone could ask for. She'll be missed by all but especially by her family. God will get everyone through this and keep you all safe. We love you with all our heart and soul. Take Care and call if you all need anything at any time.

Special Note for Mr. Bob, Please remember Scruba Diving with AO.

Love Terri & Te.

Marianne Hinsberger

June 26, 2006

Dearest Bob, Gib, Meg, Ted and Julia,



How much Arlene loved you is very apparent in every thing that Arlene did in her life. Your loss is felt by all of us. How lucky we all were to have her in our lives. God gave us a memory so that we can have roses in the winter. Her smiles and looks are still seen in Gib, Julia and Ted. I'm sure that our newest Angel will make sure that we continue to feel her love.

With my love always, Marianne

Beverly Stewart

June 26, 2006

Gib, Meg, Ted and Julia. What a special mom, mother-in-law and grandmother you had. She touched so many lives during her visit on this earth. Now she is home and at peace. I learned so much about what is important in life as I followed hers, especially the last five years. I will always treasure the memories I have of her. Love, Beverly

JO ELLEN BARRY

June 26, 2006

TO THE PRETTIEST AUNT ARLENE AROUND, THANK YOU FOR ALL THE GOOD TIMES

We sure are a family full of love. Thank you Grandm. Grandpa, our hearts are sad for you- we know how much you love her and we love you too.

June 26, 2006

Jeannie & Jeff Sawyer

June 26, 2006

To my cousin Gib, wife Meg and Teddy and Julia, Your mom/grandma was a great gift to us all. I am sorry for your loss and most of all that I am unable to be in Chicago with you at your time of need. I love you and my thoughts and prayers are with you as you are going through this transition. Just remember - we have now have an angel named Pretty Aunt Arlene. Love, Hugs, and Kisses... Jeannie and Jeff

Meg Olander

June 26, 2006

There are not enough words to express how lucky I feel that have known and loved Arlene. Being a part of her life was nothing less than a pleasure. She taught me the words compliment, compassion and kindness- she always had a kind word or did just the perfect gesture to make everyone feel special. I could have not hand picked a better woman to be my Mother in Law.. Friend. I hope I can take what she taught me and continue sharing her wonderful spirit and heart.

Teddy & Julia Olander

June 26, 2006

Hi Grandma, Please remember all the fun things we did with you. We sure loved the way you would always play with us, read us stories, and take us to do fun things. We went out to eat a lot of times too. We love you and miss you. We are so happy you are feeling better now that you are in heaven with your wings.

Carole (Seem) Smith

June 26, 2006

Arlene, thank you for letting me call you my best friend, with love, Carole.

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