Angela Bacarella Obituary

Remembering my mom, still the flame light in my heart. 9 very long years without hearing your voice and help to navigate through. Each day does not get "easier", as they say, grieving just changes its face with time. Speaking to you each day mom and listening with my heart can get me through. I miss even more each day the longer you are gone. With precious love and tears I remember, each one of those last days and caring for you. I miss you, Mommy and love you always and forever.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

My kiss to your Angel cheek. I hear your whispers, Mom, they comfort me through the long days and nights. I will be the strong, Mother Bird, as you asked me to.
I love you, Kiss Daddy for me!

It will not ever be the same thanksgiving without Aunt Angel around. Rest in Peace with Uncle Phil..You shall be missed.

Walking through the last days in my mind, Mom. Each morning I wake I miss you greater than yesterday. I love you. Your forever little girl.

My most Precious Mommy, Mom, Mother,

Here I sit one month later and the memories just continue to flood my heart and mind. I am the person you and Daddy molded me to be. Yes, I still wear my heart on my sleeve and I don't think this will ever change. This is because you taught me to feel things deeply in my soul. People tell me it will take time to become myself again, but moments like to today, the pain seems almost crushing. I pick up the phone or just want to see your face or feel you and then I am lost again. Then I think of you and Daddy together again, and it eases my mind. I write for those who knew my mother, and for those who will read this who only knew her shortly. My mother was the strongest and most giving woman I will ever know. Her visitation proved this true. As countless people came to pay their respects, from my childhood, adolescence and adulthood, and those I had never met...the story was the same. You were true to your nickname, Mom, "Angel". An angel to so many, there to be a help in time of need or want. At times it was almost paralyzing to me to stand and hear, and watch as so many came, and the stories they told. This is the legacy you left for us. I promise to be true to what you and Daddy taught me, to love others above your own needs, and be true to yourself... And family will always be the place of safety. You told Candace in those last days, that I was like a mother bird, always watching over, and worrying over the family. Well, you taught me this, I became you... so now I stand, with your wings behind me to carry on, what I learned from you. I have passed this on to my children, and I know you are proud of them. Your grandchildren and greatchildren stand, as your feet on this earth. Watch over them as their guardian. With you and Daddy at their sides I know they will make you proud. I love you doesn't seem enough words to say how I feel...I miss you..is so small compared to what my heart is crying. Rest in peace and joy, mommy.
And Oh Yes...
the checklist...
1.Yes, Mark cleaned his room, and can you believe..the closets too! and painted (with help from his big sister of course!) And I told him you were smiling BIG!
2.The counters are always clean and the garbage is always taken out promptly.
3. There are new flowers on the graves and the wreaths are taken in.
I will continue your checklist...
As Always,
Your daughter....Patricia

To my Aunt Angel, you were only a cousin to me, but you know how the big Italian families are, everyone is your aunt or uncle....Well you truly were that and so much more. We always teased that you and mom and Aunt Elaine were the Golden Girls...now we are left with only one....I know how much you missed my mom you told me that all the time, so now you are with her and you don't have to miss her anymore...say hi for me would you.....You and I had our own special connection and i'm truly gonna miss that...me and Debbie just ate at the Patio and thought of you and mommy...it'll never be the same....Well i'm glad that i was there to say good-bye to you and to be there for your family, I know that's what Babe would have wanted, so yet again i still fulfill her wishes....be at peace and say hi to everyone up there for me would you....i miss you and love you.....love, Felicia

Dear Paul and Family,

I want to send you my deepest sympathy and prayers I know we haven't see each other in so many years but I have such wonderful memories of your mother. She touched so many people's lives and we are blessed to have known her.

Patti,Mark,Paul and Families,

I received a phonecall and email while down here in Naples, FL informing me of Angel's death. I was so sorry to hear that sad news. Angel was a very nice, warm lady with so many dear friends. When I did see her, she would always ask, "so how are you doing, Maureen"? Try to remember the happy days together and that your Mom/Grandmother and your Dad/Grandpa are now in each other's arms once again. My deepest and sincerest sympathies to all of you. Take care of you!

Maureen Dalton

Dear Bacarella Family - My deepest sympanthy for the loss of your mom. I have many fond memories growing up on the block with your family. We know she will be watching over all of you.

Pat, Mark, Paul & Family
You have my deepest sympathy and prayers at this most painfull time.
I'm glad I had a chance to meet your
mother and see the love she had for all of you and all of you for her.
She'll always be with you watching over
your life and helping along the way.
Your in my thoughts,
Georgianne Brier

Please accept our condolences on the passing of your Mom, Angel. I remember our Summerfest days at St. Bede's, just a wonderful lady.
In our prayers.
Bob Mitchell & Family

So many of my earliest memories involve Angel- playing in her backyard, watching movies in her basement, and just visiting with her over the back fence. She will always be considered a part of my family, and will be deeply missed. I am very glad I was able to see her and give her a hug in October when I was last home. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

To Patty, Mark, Paul,& Family,
May your troubled hearts find peace and comfort in the knowledge that you are never alone. May God's presence ease your trembling spirits and give you rest. He knows how you feel. He is ever aware of your circumstances and ready to be your strength, your grace, and your peace. He is there to cast sunlight into all of your darkened shadows, to send encouragement through the love of friends and family, and to replace your weariness with new hope.

With Deepest Condolences;
The Arevalo Family.

Dear Patty, Mark, Paul & Families,

So many years have passed since I have seen your family. But the memories will be with me a lifetime. As a child Mrs. Bacarella was like a second mom to me. We were family and still are to this day. Even tho we live far apart you will always be in my heart. Each passing day will be brighter. I know you don't think that way now, but cherish the memories. You will miss her but she will always be looking down upon all of you. In my thoughts and prayers.
Love you all,
Rhonda (Ferro) Lenoci

Bacarella Family
Sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you.

I remember swimming at your pool with my parents Bob and Jo Rietjens. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family.

Dear Pat, Mark, Paul & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. We had the pleasure of getting to know your Mom, who was a great woman who loved her family very much. Hoping those memories of her bring you comfort through this difficult time.

Love, Emil & Sharon Wisch

Deepest condolences to the family - Jan & Joe Franzone

MOM,FOR 47 YEARS YOU HAVE BEEN HERE TO WELCOME ME HOME.SINCE DAD HAS PASSED ,WE WOULD SIT IN THE KITCHEN AND WATCH JEOPARDY THAN N.C.I.S.,EAT DINNER THAN THE CONVERSATION WOULD LEAD TO THE STATEMENT"THE GARBAGE HAS TO GO OUT IT SMELLS" OR "MARK WHEN YOU GONNA CLEAN THAT ROOM OF YOURS".WHAT I WOULD GIVE TO HEAR THAT AGAIN IS EVERYTHING.THIS BIG HOUSE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME,IT JUST GOT A WHOLE LOT BIGGER.KNOWING THAT YOU ARE WITH DAD AND GRANDMA AND AND GRAND PA,AUNT BABE,UNCLE MIKE,AUNT JO,YOUR ALL BACK WITH EACH OTHER AGAIN,OH THE STORIES YOU MUST BE HAVING WITH ALL OF THEM.MOM I MISS YOU,LOVE YOU AND AS YOU ASKED I WILL DO MY BEST TO BE STRONG,LOVE YOU MOM REST IN PEACE,MARK.

So many lovely memories from my childhood of Angel's warmth, hugs, smiles and joy. She was a very special woman.
Mary Jo Toscano (Aunt Elaine's niece)

Dear Paul, Linda & Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. May the love of your family and friends bring comfort to you during this difficult time. We will keep you and your family close in our thoughts and prayers.

With love and deepest sympathy,

The Mezatis Family