Allie Fehil Obituary

Hi Allie Girl, it's hard to believe you'd be 42 years old! been thinking of you lately and miss you dearly. Love you n Stuff! smooches

My prayers are to all of you, I haven't seen Allie since we were in Junior High and seen this. I am sorry to see that she passed away as we grew up together in Fenton. You, Jason and your family was a blessing to me growing up I hated when you guys moved back to Chicago, what a beautiful soul taken to soon you are now a beautiful ANGEL fly high baby girl <#

I love and miss my baby sister

happy birthday sweetie love and still and always will miss you be there to see you soon so watch for me. we all love you and we all miss you,

well baby girl here we are again another year gone by i still miss you and think about you all the time i pull out all the old pics of us alot when i need a good laugh or smile i hope your still saving that spot for me up there i love you very much babygirl

Happy Birthday Allie! 33 years old today, I know you are having birthday cake and singing with the angles today! I love and miss you so much and think about you often....
Love u & Stuff!
<3

Hi my baby sister. I'm so sorry I'm just writing to you late, but you've been on my mind all week. as you know another angel has earned her wings and it has been really emotional week. I miss you dearly Allie and I wish you were here with me. I love you my baby girl and watch over Taylor for us!

Good Morning Angel,
Was just talking about you this morning with Skylar, looking at your picture she has in her room. Skye and Josh both stay that you are their guardian angel, Jimmy is to young still to understand that.... we love you. Feeling very selfish right now and wishing you were here with us. Wish you can see these kids and play with them. I know you are with us, but just wishing we had all of you right now. Cindy is awesome, shes a great auntie, she spoils these kids, acts goofy, dances around Skye..hahaha, I cant help but think how it would be if you were here doing the same thing. You must be here around us today, we feel you here. Love you so much. xoxoxo

hi baby, it felt good to come by you today and just stand there and talk to you, i know you heard me. i live and miss you if only you knew how much,will be back to talk again soon. love you very very much. dad

Hey there twin! Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday!! I miss you dearly and can't wait till the day we're reunited!! Take care of lil Max up there for us and give him lots of hugs and kisses. Love u n stuff!! Love Nicki Xoxo

Hey allie
Its Brandi from St.Louis Bobbys wife im gonna cry doing this my time with you was cut short we had the best times in the world you me Bobby Jason riding around fenton MO just kickin it i miss you and i know im gonna see you again so get your dance moves put together cuz its on when i get there I love you girl its your birthday i will never in my life forget you I LOVE YOU

Hi Baby Girl!
Well tomorrow is your Birthday and you will be 32 years old...I love and miss you dearly. I think about you often. I hope all the Angels are singing Happy Birthday to you tomorrow cuz I sure will....Love you N stuff!
Cindy <3

Hello My Baby Sister,
I've been thinking of you lately. Recently My Best Friend has been called upon by God to join you in his everlasting life. Its only been a week, and I missed Cheryl dearly. You know what they say, God only takes the good! Please look after her, and once in a while wrap your arms around her and tell her..." I love you N stuff. Love -Your Big Sister, Christine.

Hi Baby Sister, I have been talking about you this past week..a friend of mine is loosing her Baby sister too from this awe full disease called CANCER! She's having a rough time now and I'm trying to give her words of wisdom of how I got through that difficult time with loosing you too! It wasn't easy, but I do remember to think that God needed you more than he thought I needed you! Watch over my friend and our sister Chris to help them to be strong through this difficult time...I love and miss you dearly! P.S. was that you inside my screened in porch for like 3 day's flying around? :) Such a beautiful Butterfly! :)

hi baby girl, we all miss and love you so much i am so glad to see you have a family that still thinks about you.i will continue to come by your grave and keep it nice and clean till i join you, i love and miss you and think about you everyday, i even have a butterfly hanging in my car just to remind me. love you sweetie. dad

You took a peice of my heart with you but thats ok. It is how I feel you every day.
I miss you so much .. the real thing you and me.. you know what I mean..I LOVE YOU.

It's 4 years ago today Allie that you went home! I so miss you everyday baby girl! I know you are happy and smiling down on me! Love you N Stuff! Your favorite sister ALWAYS Cindy!

I can't get you out of my mind for these past few day's Allie! Are you talking to me? I love you and miss you so very much that it hurts! :( I know you are an Angel up above watching down on me. Love You N Stuff! Dad said he stopped by yesterday, maybe I will come visit soon too. He was thinking of you too. :) Love your favorite sister Cindy!

Thinking about you today and for the past few day's for some reason! You must be watching me. I so miss you & wish you were here! Love You N Stuff...
Your Favorite Sister Cindy <3

it's been 3 years to the day Allie. I miss your smile and your beautiful unique eyes.. I especially miss you saying...
"love you n stuff"
Love your favorite sister Cindy :)

hi baby:
love you and miss you more than ever will be out to talk to you saturday we all miss and love you. like i said before we will all be together again one day. love you very very much, dad

Love you N Stuff Baby girl!!!!!

Missing you like CRAZY!!!!!

Love your favorite sister Cindy!

Hello Allie Allie Girl:
No specific reason to write today except that I am thinking of you and felt your presence today. We miss you dearly....hope you enjoyed the wedding ... and your candle lighting. We had to have you there.. even though we know you were there in spirit we wanted to share you with everybody.. a form of completeness I guess. Skylar still talks about you and has your picture in her room. I guess you already know that your brother is taking on this fighting business... so watch over him ok? I love you and am missing our girlie moments of clothes shopping and your 2am visits ..haha.. and having to wake up and feed you, listen to you snore while the kids stare at you.. haha.. things would be so different today, I know Skylar was your everything and I just can't imagine how your relationship would be today if you were here physically. She would be attached at your hip. I love you and like I said, just wanted to drop in and say "hi"...xoxoxoxoxo

hi baby miss you ever so much, went by your grave yeterday on your birthday had to shovel all the snow off i think yours is the only one out there with no snow on it. left you a card hope everybody that visits you signs it. we all love and miss you.one day we will all be together again. will be out there to see you soon.

love you dad

Hey Allie Girl,

I promised your favorite sister Cindy that she would have the first spot of the day on your guest book today. She can't write to you right now and you know why... I am sure you are watching over her. She misses you dearly and always thinks of you. She wanted to be the first to wish you a Happy Birthday and I promised her that her name would be first (you know her)...We all miss you dearly.

Love..Your Favorite Sister Cindy!...but typed by Tina..haha.. Love you xo

Thinking of you again like always...you are always in my heart baby girl...I'm sometimes just day dreaming of you and seeing those Beautiful Eyes of your's..I miss you and love N stuff...Keep watching out over us ok...Love your Favorite Sister Cindy :)

Hey Allie Girl,
Glad Dad kept the guest book going so I can keep talking to ya. Thinking of you today as most days.Love ya and miss you so so much....
Your Favorite Sister Always Cindy...

Hey Allie Girl,
Yesterday was 2 years since you been gone...Boy do I MISS YOU!!!It was really nice yesterday visiting you with Dad,Pat,Chris,Cindy and Baby Gabrielle who is Born the day after your Birthday..I Know you seen her playing..Didn't you...She's as cute as you..I Love you soooo much Girl.. Keep watching out over the Family..and I'll keep the butterflies going...SMILE...
Love your Favorite Sister Cindy!!

Hey Allie Girl,
I was just thinking of you a lot today and thought I would just say I'm missing you big time Girl..... I love you Allie and I know you are watching over me. I will continue to keep you in my Prayers.
Love your Favorite Sister Cindy!!

Allie,

We all miss and love you so much. Your presence was known and felt through Christmas and Thanksgiving. Cindy gave us all pictures of you as our special gift to treasure.. Skylar has ours sitting on her desk in her room. I just wanted to wish you a happy, happy HAPPY BIRTHDAY and let you know that we are all thinking of you sweets!!!!

Love,
Your Favorite sis-in-law!!!!! Tina:)

Happy 29th birthday to my baby sister, Allie-girl I love and miss you so much. We thought about you alot through this holiday season, and even put your picture by our Thanksgiving turkey! (We all knew thats were you would want to be) right next to the food.
Happy New Year and I love you and miss you very much.

Love,
Your favorite sister Cindy.

HI PRETTY GIRL JUST WANTED TO SAY I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. & BOY DO I MISS YOU, THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY. I EVEN HAVE YOUR PICTURE ON MY DESK.
LOVE DAD

Hi Allie,

We all feel your presence some days more so than others. Josh got his butterfly as you know, we were all taken back and happy. You still make us laugh and wonder!!! We love you so much and thank you for watching over my little ones.... we all know you do but the sign you gave us the other day brought true meaning into our lives.. we needed that special touch. I love you and miss you so much. Please stay close. XO I attached some recent pictures of your " Angel babies" as you called them...one in particular has alot of your keen sense of beauty! haha....and yes Cindy is still driving me crazy at work! I love you!

Your Favorite Sister-in-law,
Tina:)

hi baby we went to your grave today pulled some weeds can't have my baby's grave looking bad, put some pretty flowers and a butterfly there for you. we love and miss you
pray for all of us. love dad

HI BABY LOVE AND MISS YOU EVERYDAY,AS WE ALL DO.I KNOW YOU CAN'T READ THIS BUT TO ME IT IS LIKE TALKING TO YOU.YOU SHOULD SEE CHRIS'S BABY GABRIELLE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, JUST LIKE YOU.
I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH DAD

To my greatest aunt ever, u were like a sister to me, we shared things with each other that we'd never share with anyone in the world, you'll always be in my heart as i'm in yours, watch over us as i know u are. Love u always your nephew Tom Tom. P.S. we'll all be united soon. Ashes 2 Ashes Dust 2 Dust God is with u as he will be with us.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

hi baby im thinking of you always and i miss you so much.hope your doing fine up there.and behaving N -STUFF.and by the way i have your blanket and sleep with it every night.and happy aniversary baby,i love you and miss you N-STUFF

TO MY BABY SISTER ALLIE, I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY MY LITTLE LADY FRIEND! FOREVER IN MY HEART LOVE YOUR FAVORITE SISTER CINDY.haha

Dear Fehil Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child seems unfair and unreasonable. God does have plans for all of us. Plans we don't know about and these plans are supposed to be better than what we have here on earth. Stay strong and know that Allie is in a much better place.

Laura Haynes

im sending all my love to my wifey.imiss you so much,they say a mans not suppoed to cry,somebody lied to them,my emotions run to deep for you.i dont think this pain will ever go away.baby i miss you so much.god i miss you so so much,i cant waitto get theirso i can bring you a rose like i always used to in a mgd bottle i hope they have mgd their.and the way you used to run to me when jason would drop me off from work screaming BABY I MISSED YOU (N-STUFF) you were so cute.but when i get their you will be in my arms once more.missing you and loving you always. your hubby(N-STUFF)(N-STUFF)

Allie , you are the greatest,most beautiful sister-in-law a person could ask for. Always happy no matter what kind of day you were having. Any time I reflect upon your life I see your smile!!!! My children will also miss your funny ways, dancing in the kitchen to your latest songs, and trying to beat up their dad (not that you ever won!!)we love you and will never forget you AND THAT SMILE!

Love your sister-in-law... 4-ever!

Jim, Pat, Chris, Cindy, Jimmy,and Jason. Words can not express enuff sympathy for you of the loss u feel now, the emptyness Allie's passing has created in your lives. I am sure Allie had comfort from all of u in her feelings of the depth and unconditional love you all showed her in her final days here as well as first days in Heaven. What a wonderful legacy u have all left with her. With all our love,

allie,just want you to know im thinking and missing you a great deal you meant so much to me.its still hard to take in that my baby is no longer here ,but you will forever be in my heart.missing you (n STUFF) your hubby

Uncle Jim, I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for a reason & go for reasons many of us never understand, but while we are here, know that we are here for each other!!
Love Chris, Kelly & Jim

Allie will be missed forever. Allie, your last two days on earth were beautiful and classy just the way your father wanted it. Your sisters (Chris and Cindy) and your brothers (Jimmy and Jason) and your dad made sure that was done so everyone can know how you were loved and will be missed. They did one great job of making those two days special. I will thank them forever because they cared and extended themselves beyond anyone else.
Love
Pat

Jason,Tina and family,

I am sorry that such a good family had to experience such a tragic loss. Your sister is such a beautiful woman. I was happy to see her picture in this photo album. Our prayers are with you now and always. If you need anything please let us know.

Allie you will always be in my heart,nor will you ever be forgoten.missing you for ever& always your husband (N STUFF)

Jim,
I am so sorry about your loss. I hope knowing that Allie is no longer suffering and is at peace will give you some comfort. She will always be in your heart and memories.
My heart goes out to you and Pat in this trying time
Patti

Jim,
I am sorry about your loss. I only hope that you can find some comfort knowing Allie is no longer suffering and is at peace. My prayers go out to you and Pat during this very hard time.

Love,
Patti

I am very sorry to hear of Allie's passing. I knew her when we were just little girls. May God be with you during this sad time.

Jimmy,
Steve and I are so sorry for your loss. We pray that you will find comfort in knowing that she is no longer in any pain. We love you and Pat very much.

This is my little sister Allie. I believe I did my best as a older brother that I knew how. I never thought I would be writing an obituary to my younger sister that holds a big part of my heart. I knew she loved being with me and I sure loved being her brother. To all my family and friends I thank them for putting her first and showing her memory all the respect it deserved.
We all knew she was sick but never did I imagine when it was time to let her go she would take such a big part of me with her.

Thelma and Jason and Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My words can't begin to soothe your heart but your strength in God will take over and bring you through this. Your beautiful daughter you raised on your own from beginning to end will live on in everybody who has known her beautiful smile. Here on earth you stood by her side through good times and bad. Always being there when she needed you. Now it is her turn to watch over you and everyone else. Jason , time will heal the pain but her memory will keep her alive in your heart. You have a beautiful wife and family that I know stands by you every bit of the way. Make the most of life and cherish every moment.

Chris, Cindy, Jim and Family,

When you lose someone you love, the loss seems too great to bear, God sends us friends to comfort us, To show that He deeply cares.

My deepest sympathies to you all, until you meet again.

Joan Cruz and Family

JIM

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS

DEBBIE

Dear Fehil Family
As a mother I can not comprehend the pain both family and parents are induring. But Praise God, knowing Allie is with the Lord will be a comfort soon. First dealing with the reality of it all will need to be done. I pray God will help with the pain.
God Bless
Barb

Jim & Pat

Sorry to hear about Alli. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Wish we could be there. Be strong. We love you, talk to you soon.

I WILL MISS YOU BABY