Wax, David H. 50, Beloved husband of Shelley nee Hamer. Devoted father of Benjy, Adam and Jessie. Loving son of Lynn and William Wax. Cherished brother of Alan (Lisa) Wax and Lisa (Allan) Cohn. Dear son-in-law of Joanne and the late Martin Hamer. Fond uncle and friend of many. Service Thursday 12:30PM at Congregation B'nai Jehoshua Beth Elohim, 1201 Lake Cook Road, Deerfield, IL 60015. Interment Shalom. Memorials in his memory to Cong. BJBE Capital Campaign would be appreciated. Arrangements by: Chicago Jewish Funerals, 847-229-8822, www.cjfinfo.com
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Jelly beans. I miss not sharing them with you in the morning at work. Many laughs were part of it too.
David Hofrichter
Work
June 1, 2023
Dave every so often I think about you and how I miss your friendship. !!!!
Stuart Rabin
Friend
June 1, 2022
Ten years have passed since David left us. As We prepare for another Camp Waupaca reunion, I can't help but feel a loss, that David won't be able to join. We will salute his memory at a campfire at camp on Saturday August 28.
Mike Lurie
Friend
June 1, 2021
We still miss you in the office and working together. We can still hear your laugh and remember the joy of sharing those experiences together.
Dave Hofrichter
Coworker
June 1, 2021
Cant believe another year has passed without you. Your spirit is always with us. I miss our morning discussions and the jellybeans. We solved a lot problems at those discussions. My prayers are with all the Wax family. We miss you Dave!
Dave Hofrichter
Coworker
June 1, 2020
You are still in our thoughts and prayers. We miss your laugh and the good times working together.
David Hofrichter
Coworker
June 1, 2019
Dear Shelley,
My deepest condolences to you on your tragic loss. This is such a difficult time for you. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sharon Abelman
September 26, 2011
Sharon Abelman
September 26, 2011
Dear Shelley and family,
Our condolences to the entire Wax family on your great loss. Words cannot express the sadness we feel. We will keep you all in our heart and prayers.
Rose & Bill Kasten
July 29, 2011
Dear Shelley and family, We stopped to say Hi at St. Fran and heard of your tragic loss. We hope the love and support of family and friends will sustain you at this sad time.
Devorah and Bob Heyman
June 29, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Wax family. We our so sorry for your loss. Mary Lynn and I just found out, we are shocked and sad for all of you.
Brad Subrin
June 23, 2011
I share the common theme of thoughts and memory of Dave. I worked very closely with him at Hewitt. I miss him every day and saw him as a close friend in spite of only knowing him a short time. He was absolutely wonderful as a person, colleague and know he made a difference in a great number of lives. I pray for all of his family and friends.
Bill Dixon
June 22, 2011
Shelly
So sorry to hear of Davids passing. I hope that you can find some comfort from the outpouring of love from those that knew him.
Paul Agombar
Head Varsity Soccer Coach
GBS High School
June 16, 2011
Dear Shelley, Joanne and Family,
I was shocked and very sad to learn of the sudden passing of David. May the happy memories you have of him console and sustain you during this tragic time.
Dolores Century
June 13, 2011
Shelley,
I'm so sorry to hear about Dave, I remember him from the preschool days at the BJBE. I remember Dave as a very warm and caring person! I'm thinking about you and your family at this terrible time!
Amy and Jeff Strauss
June 11, 2011
Shelley, I don't know if you remember us. Our boys went to BJBE together but unfortunately it has been several years since we have been in touch. We are so very sad for your loss. Dave was a wonderful father and husband and you were a beautiful couple together. Our deepest condolences and thoughts are with you through this difficult time.
Ronda,Bob, Joel and Shelley Frankel
June 11, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Wax family. I knew Dave since Kindergarten at Melzer and then through Jr High and High School. He was always a bright, kind hearted person. After30 years, I had the privilege to see him at our reunion two yrs ago. He was the same kind soul that I remembered from grade school. He touched so many people and the world is a better place because of it
Steve Rowe
June 11, 2011
My dearest Shelley,
Larry and I are very deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved husband David. Our hearts go out to you and your beautiful children and family. May God grant you his mercy and peace.
Barbara and Lawrence C. Weldon
Barbara Weldon
June 11, 2011
Dear Shelley
Wil Yep
June 10, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
I met Dave when I was in my twenties going out to the bars with him, Seth Palatnik among others. From that point until now he was always the same person. When I think of Dave I think of a stand up guy who represented all that is good. Going to BJBE will not be the same without his presence. My family and I mourn your loss.
Steve Glazer
June 9, 2011
Dear Shelia and family and Alan,
I am so sorry for your loss. I tried to make it to the funeral but had to many appointments but was thinking of you at that time. Shelia, I remember you in high school as a loving and caring beautiful young woman. I know you are a great mother and will handle this with grace and strength. Alan, I know how much you loved your brother and know you will be there for the kids over the summer when they will lean on you. Hopefully your strength will transfer over to the kids.
Keep in good spirits the best you can to help the kids get through this bad time.
Mark Lichtenstein
June 9, 2011
27 years ago Dave was the only non-family member in my wedding. 24 years ago Dave sent my first-born daughter a US Savings bond. 2 days ago I learned of Dave's passing, and 20 minutes ago his memorial service began.
Wax family: please know that you do not mourn alone.
What does the future hold? Shelley, my promise to pray for you and the children. For me, I'm afraid I will always wish I had stayed in closer touch with Dave over the many years.
Jim
Jim & Linda Barr
June 9, 2011
Dear Shelley, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. May your many happy memories help you and your family through this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jan Martin St. Francis Hospital
June 9, 2011
Shelley:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family. Clearly David left an indelible imprint on so many, personally as well as professionally. The world, as well as our community is a better place because of David.
Burt & Wendy Levy
June 9, 2011
Shelley,
I am a college friend of Dave's and sadly have not had the pleasure of meeting you, nor taken the time to contact Dave in so many years. I am shocked and very sorry for your loss. Dave was a great friend and I truly regret the missed opportunities to meet you and reminisce with Dave. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Bob Unfer
Bob Unfer
June 9, 2011
Shelley,Adam,Benjy and Jessie
I am so sad and sorry for your loss of your wonderful Dad and husband. Dave was a wonderful Man. I always loved that he was such a kind and giving man. He adored your Mother and you children. He beamed when he spoke about all of you. He will be so missed but never forgotten and in our hearts forever. My love and prayers to you all.
Wendy Thomas
June 9, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss Shelly. Although it has been many yrs since St Francis days, I do remember both of you in happier times.
Ines Baquero
June 9, 2011
To the Wax family:
You might not remember me...I worked with David many years ago when PWC was just PW...I was a file room clerk then, a scrappy kid still in college. I worked with David for many years, eventually becoming IT and fixing David's computers:). I continued to work with him after it became PwC and until I had my first child. My heart broke when I heard the news from our mutual friend and former co-worker Allison Cain. David was filled with gentleness and kindness. He was so respectful and had a really fantastic sense of humor. It has been a long time since I have seen him, but out of anyone I ever worked with over there, he made an impression. He was certainly a great man, who, no doubt, left a legacy everywhere of great impressions. My heart is broken for you all and I will pray for all of you.
Heather Donaldson-Moran
June 9, 2011
Dear Shelley and Family,
So saddened to hear of Dave's death. My Mom was very upset as Dave was one of her favorite colleagues at work. Our thoughts will be with you. Ellen Brin Divita, Union, IL
Ellen Brin Divita
June 9, 2011
My deepest sympathies are with you at this time of sorrow. I went to high school with Dave and was so pleased to see him at our last class reunion.
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.
~Author Unknown
Deb Cielocha-Wozniak
June 8, 2011
Shelley,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about David. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts are with you.
Layne and Ann Oliff
Ann Oliff
June 8, 2011
Dave was a colleague at my first actuarial job at PwC, and we reunited as colleagues more recently at Hewitt. He was a good consultant and colleague, and always a pleasure to be around.
Eric Friedman
June 8, 2011
Dear Shelley and the Wax family,
We are so saddened to about Dave’s passing and are so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Dave as a good friend in college and as an usher at our wedding. He was one of the kindest guys I ever knew. It was so great that we got to see and talk to the two of you at our party last summer. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Vince and Jean Versaci
Vince Versaci
June 8, 2011
Shelley, what a shock to hear about the sudden loss of your husband. I am so, so very sorry for your loss. Randi Frankel(Glenview, Illinois)
June 8, 2011
Shelley,
We are so saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Our deepest sympathy,
Rich and Jamie Zelvin
Rich Zelvin
June 8, 2011
Dear Shell,
We are deeply saddened by your sudden loss and cannot imagine what you, Benji, Adam and Jessie must be going through. We are so thankful to have known such a wonderful, positive, warm and kind man. Though we are out of the country and cannot be there, our thoughts are with you. Carol, David, Rachel and Sarah Stone
Carol Stone
June 8, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
We are shocked to learn of the passing of Dave. Dave was a fun and loyal friend and college roommate. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Wax Family.
Chris and Diane Troscinski
June 8, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
I worked with David for a short time-but it was a wonderful working relationship. He spoke often of his family and was so proud of his son's recent graduation. My heart goes out to you all.
Paula Pelissero
June 8, 2011
My deep sympathies to the Wax family. I grew up going to school with David. Melzer grade school, Apollo and Maine East. I have fond memories of sharing classes with David. I always admired how smart, wise and kind he was. Praying for you family.
Marie Buscaglia Guthrie
June 8, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
as a camp counselor at Camp Waupacaa in the mid-60s I feel a part of the extended Camp Waupaca Family.
I extend to you my deepest sympathies.
Peter Friend
June 8, 2011
Alan and Family,
Sorry to hear about your loss. If David is anything like Alan, I know he was a good man that will be missed by all. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
George Van Geem
June 8, 2011
We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Markowitz family
Nanci Markowitz
June 8, 2011
Remembering the kindness and love generated by this wonderful son, brother, husband and father will help guide us all through this time of sorrow. David was to me a former student and livelong friend. His presence at the Band/Music reunion last year was special to me. David had the highest standards of anyone that I have known and that included his presence as a friend.
Jerry Hug
June 8, 2011
Dear Wax family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I went to high school with Dave and played the French Horn with him. I had the delight of getting to spend time with him at our high school and band reunions last year. Dave was kind-hearted, and had such a gentle spirit. He will be missed.
Charlotte Ullman
June 8, 2011
Dear Wax Family: I am deeply saddened by the passing of one of my best friends growing up. I will always remember hanging out with David, playing baseball and tennis and just growing up.
Steve Friedman (next door neighbor)
June 7, 2011
I met David just a bit over two months ago at the URJ's Scheidt Seminar in Atlanta. As part of our working group of large congregations, David made such a huge impression on all of us with his devotion, organizational skills and intelligence. No doubt he would have been an incredible President for his congregation. My deepest sympathies on this tragic loss.
Diana Muller
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
I went to high school with Dave and had nearly every class with him. I was also in band with Alan and Dave. I saw Dave at both our 30th high school reunion and the music dept reunion we had in August, 2010. So many of us from Maine East are shocked and saddened by his sudden passing. I hope that the memories of him will help sustain you in your grief.
Amy Levin
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax family, I am so sorry to hear of your untimely loss. My prayers and deepest sympathies to you.
Jill Attkisson (Aon Hewitt)
Jill Attkisson
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
We are very sad to hear about David's passing. We really enjoy seeing your family at Aunt Elly/Uncle Cy's house. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Suzan Schmetterer and Arlene Marks
and all of the Marks family.
Suzan Schmetterer
June 7, 2011
Shelley, Benjy, Adam and Jessie,
I am so deeply saddened by David's passing. He was such a good man. I am grateful to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May his memory be for a blessing.
Shari Friedman
June 7, 2011
Dear Shelley, Benji, Adam, and Jessie - We were so terribly sorry to hear of the untimely loss of David. Our hearts go out to all of you, and we will keep you in our prayers.
The Sudendorf-Ransford Family
June 7, 2011
To the Wax Family--I grew up with David in Morton Grove, attending grammar school, hebrew school, jr. high and high school with him. He was one of these people that when you think of him, all you have is wonderful memories. Was always so nice to everyone and such a good soul. He will be missed. Andrea (Mandelkern) Weber
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family:
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Love Jill Marc and Brandon Partner
Jill Partner
June 7, 2011
Shelley,
I was so sad to hear about Dave. You and he appeared to be the perfect couple, both of you so kind and gentle. Please know that you and Dave and your children are in my prayers.
Linda Williamson
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our condolences on the loss of your Son, brother,father, husband and friend, David
Roman Paluch Maria Sepulveda
CNEMS- Advocate IMMC
June 7, 2011
I have known Dave for about 40 years and I've lost a true friend. He was a kind, decent and sincere person; he had no hidden agenda except to do the right thing. He was a dedicated father, husband, and friend while also finding time to volunteer in the community. He will truly be missed but not forgotten. Our heart goes out to Shelley, Benji, Adam and Jessie - We will always be there for you guys.
Stuart and Sandy Rabin
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family:
One of the pleasures of my life was knowing and working with Dave. He was a special person and we always found a way to laugh about things - even the most difficult. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. The world lost one of its good souls. He will always be in our hearts.
Dave Hofrichter
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family: You are with us in our thoughts and prayers. (Christine Corbet, Aon Hewitt)
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family,
I am so saddened and sorry to hear of the loss of your dear David. My warmest childhood memories all have your family included. Lisa and I shared all our childhood experiences together and they are all fondly remembered. My condolences to your family and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Julie Levin Lehrman
Julie Levin Lehrman
June 7, 2011
Peace, hope, and strength during this difficult time.
Christopher and Barbara Favia
Barbara Favia
June 7, 2011
Dear Shelley, Benjy, Adam, and Jessie and Wax family,
I am heartbroken to hear about Dave's death. I have thought of little else since hearing the news, and I can not imagine the anguish your family is going through. I was so impressed by Dave's gentle, friendly, and kind demeanor on the occasions that I saw him, and I could tell that he adored you all and was very proud of his beautiful family. Please know that I am here to help in any way. May your memories of his grace and love give you all strength and courage in the weeks and months ahead.
Janis Sacks (Frank, Lia, and Jesse)
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family and BJBE Family:
On behalf of myself and the Board of Directors of Temple Beth-El, please accept our condolences on the loss of David. I had the pleasure of working with David on the Fall 2010 Candidate Forum and have no doubt he would have been a wonderful President of BJBE. Our community has lost a great leader, friend as well as a dedicated spouse, father, and family member. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Harold Israel
President, Temple Beth-El
Harold Israel
June 7, 2011
Though we have never met, we share your loss. We admired David at BJBE for his dedication, his faith and his leadership. His passing is a loss to us all. Our prayers are with you.
Sissie & Alan Eirinberg
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax Family: I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a kind gentleman. He will be missed. Lillian McDonald (Xerox/Aon Hewitt)
June 7, 2011
Shelley, Benji, Adam, and Jessie,
We are so incredibly sad to hear about David's passing. The shock at times has been overwhelming for me. Maybe this is because I just saw all of you Saturday at Anna's graduation party, but it is more likely because it is hard for me to understand why such a great Dad and Husband has to leave us all so soon.
I am grateful for the years I was able to know David. I lit some candles today at St. Joseph's church in Hopkins, MN for all of you. I hope it helps.
The Paskos will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul Pasko
June 7, 2011
We are overwhelmed with sadness and shock. What a beautiful, dimpled, bright, fun little boy was David; who grew into a mirror of same as an accomplished adult. Our thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you.
Bob and Diane Webber
June 7, 2011
Dear Shelley, Benjy, Adam and Jessie,
I can't express my heart's sorrow when I heard about David today. He truly was a wonderful person and I am honored that I had the chance to get to know him over the past years. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Linda and Keith Krueger
Linda and Keith Krueger
June 7, 2011
I had the privilege of meeting and working with David at the URJ Scheidt Seminar this past Spring. What a delightful and inspired human being. I was looking forward to working with him and staying in touch. I am deeply saddened to hear of his premature passing and send his family and congregation my sincere condolences. Zichrono l'vracha.
Beth Schafer
June 7, 2011
To David's family and friends:
The AYSO Community in Glenview, Region 362, has lost a dedicated volunteer who will be remembered for his selfless service to the children of Glenview as a Referee, Coach, and hard-working Board member. I will always have very fond memories of seeing David, on the field, in the classroom and at Region 362 Referee Dinners. I will miss that great smile and endearing personality.
Tom Severin
AYSO National Referee
Area 6D Staff
Region 362 former Board Member
Tom Severin
June 7, 2011
Shelly, Benji, Adam and Jessie,
We are all so sad to hear about Dave. He will be truly missed. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. The Palatnik Family
Seth and Michal Palatnik
June 7, 2011
Shelley, Benjy, Adam and Jessie: Sam and I are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I'm so grateful to have had the chance to work with Dave for so many years. He will be missed by all of us at Aon Hewitt.
Desa & Sam Radowick
June 7, 2011
Dear Wax family, as your former next door neighbor for years i am very sorry to hear about the loss of David, He was a good person who was always nice to other people
Jeff Friedman
June 7, 2011
I cannot express how deeply saddened I am to hear about David's untimely passing. I have known David for 41 years from Camp Waupaca. Part of my childhood died today. Please accept my condolences. May David's memory be a blessing for all of you.
Mike Lurie
June 7, 2011
It's impossible to imagine what you are going through right now. David put more into his life and gave more to others in his too short time here than most people do in a full life time. He will be leaving a gaping hole in the community and amongst friends, but none bigger than in your family. He is so well loved and respected.
Deanna & Mark Jacobson
June 7, 2011
Deepest condolences on the loss of a truly good man. He had so much more to give to the world—and yet, he touched so many, so young. With fond memories of a high school band and tennis buddy, and good-hearted friend.
Judy Stern Friedman
June 7, 2011
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