John Hughes Obituary

Hughes, Jr., John Wilden born on February 18, 1950 in Michigan, died suddenly of a heart attack while taking a morning walk on a trip in Manhattan to visit family. The date was August 6th. A self-made man whose career began as an advertising copywriter in Chicago, his work as a screenwriter, producer and director on such films as The Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Planes, Trains and Automobiles and Home Alone helped launch countless careers and revealed to a global audience the humor, sensitivity and nuances of everyday people in the suburbs of Chicago. In the last decade, he stepped back from the legacy he created to enjoy time with his family, maintain a functioning farm in northern Illinois and support independent arts. While the impact of his work and philanthropy were felt internationally, he focused intensely on local interests, including the planting of a half-million trees in McHenry County and the funding of medical research through Northwestern Memorial Hospital. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Nancy; two sons, John Wilden III and James Warren; and four grandchildren, Katelyn Rose, John Wilden IV, Livia Brynn and Henry Paul. He was a proud resident of Northbrook, Glencoe, Northfield, Harvard and Lake Forest, where he lived since 1988. A private service will be held at Wenban Funeral Home in Lake Forest on Tuesday, August 11th. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the American Heart Association, 208 S. LaSalle St. Ste 1500, Chicago, IL 60604-1242 and the Northwestern University School of Medicine, Arthritis Research Fund, 300 E. Superior St., Lurie Building, 7th Floor, Chicago, Illinois 60611. Info: 847-234-0022.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Aug. 9 to Aug. 10, 2009.
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Thank You for the most memorable movies that seemed to have been circled around the time I was at GBN from 1981 -1985. When I graduated from GBN the following year you started filming Ferris Buellers Day Off. I was an extra in that movie who actually got paid. That is something I will remember forever. Thank You for sharing our stories with the rest of the country. RIP

Laura

Other

November 30, 2023

Mr. Hughes, thank you for portraying our city, Chicago, in a positive light on film. Thank you for capturing the youth of Generation X on film. Lastly, thank you for planting those thousands of trees that you did. That is your greatest legacy to our world. Godspeed, sir.

Jack Lowe

July 12, 2022

Mr Hughes,

Thank you for giving a voice to Generation X, I greatly appreciate all the work that you gave us. It has helped me a lot over the years to deal with the pressures of life.

Ferris, Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, Pretty In Pink....

They were all awesome!

May you continue to Rest In Peace,

Robert

Robert Treat

July 8, 2020

Thank You for such a Special movie from a Campus Supervisor (Suspension Ctr M-F and Saturday School) 1982-1993...............L/Semper Fidelis 70-81 USMC & 01-04 CaArNG

Leo Chapinski

February 15, 2020

Since I could not meet You when You were alive and kicking, I look forward to do that after I leave this performance. Thank You for all You did to open the curtains on the inner machinations of Human Beings.

Helena-Sophia Exel

Acquaintance

June 14, 2019

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Joshua Grauer

May 23, 2018

His most memorable interview, in 1985 at the American Film Institute:
http://www.afi.com/media/AFI_JohnHughesPart1.mp3
http://www.afi.com/media/AFI_JohnHughesPart2.mp3

classmate

April 13, 2018

John Hughes films are really awesome. If he could have made more.

Romano Brown

December 15, 2017

John's movies have never been, nor will they ever be matched. Classic movies made by a master, legacy in time.
Rod & Penny A

January 1, 2016

As I watch the making of ferris bueller I miss u all over. Taken too soon. We love & miss your genius.

Bella Isap

October 4, 2015

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Harry Simpson

August 6, 2015

I own all of your movies they were really great I've watched them growing up.

January 13, 2015

Merry Chrismas John, artist, storyteller and lover of music. Wishing you were here to chronicle our times.

Patrick Herron

December 17, 2014

It was so great to grow up with your films when I was in high school. I still like to watch them even though I'm almost 50 - classics never get old.

December 15, 2014

You helped to make my sons childhood Christmas's magical rip John Hughes love your films x

christine heap

December 7, 2014

Made my sons Christmas even more exciting he actually knows all the words from Home Alone,he is now 33 and still loves your films R.I.P. thankyou for making funny entertaining films,you will never be forgot John Hughes x

December 7, 2014

your movies were the best and music from the breakfast club unforgettable. 1985 with simply mind songs. rest in peace john

mike vigil

November 6, 2014

John Hughes, you were a defining light of my adolescence and beyond. Your movies, so many of them, are some of the greatest of all time and are so near and dear to my heart. You were a major influence in my life and I appreciate your work. You are the greatest filmaker of all time in my opinion. Thank you.

Josh Walters

August 22, 2014

Your talent was immensely entertaining. Your movies have meant so much to my family. RIP

June 25, 2014

P.s.s

Long live Chet !!!!

Rusty Lozano

December 3, 2013

Wow...where do I start. John, you are responsible for so many wonderful childhood memories. As I grew up I learned how terrible things are in this world, but your work shielded my childhood from such things- for that I am so grateful beyond words. I grieve your absence ... I feel close to you. God Bless you and thank you for: weird science, breakfast club, and sixteen candles.

Rusty Lozano

December 3, 2013

To John Hughes,
You did a wonderful job directing the movies Home Alone Part 2 lost in New York, Sixteen Candles, Etc. My prayers go to you, and your family. Lisa Weiner

Lisa Weiner

November 27, 2013

I must say that you are my favorite film writer/director. I learned quite a bit by watching your films. I have many wonderful memories watching your movies. God bless you and your family. You are missed Mr. Hughes. Rest in Peace.

Brian O'Rourke

May 6, 2013

I never realized how talented you were an how many movies you wrote. I today just watched 16 candles your movies never get old. The world has lost a true talent, your movies will live forever an effect all generations to come. You made the world a better place may god bless you an keep you safe.

paula

April 17, 2013

John,

Your movies are something special, they stand the test of time. You got me through high school... When I didn't go to prom and spent the night watching your films specifically "Pretty in Pink" you were there for me. Now that I am the mother of 2 little girls I cannot wait for the day I can introduce your wonderful films to them.
Thank you!!!!!!!

Jennifer

January 16, 2013

As I sit here and watch Breakfast Club, remembering the first time I ever saw it-- just eleven years old, all by myself in a very dark farmhouse, way after midnight, the kids all asleep-- I think of the ways you touched my life. The ways you shaped me.

Thank you for being the man you were... thank you for everything. For giving me someone to identify with. For trying to teach me, regardless how hard it was to see, that high school was always going to be a drag for everyone. (;

Much love, Mr. Hughes. Much love.

Jen T

December 30, 2012

Todsy is your third anniversary when our lord called you home.We will always
remember the boy door..giving us great memories of our teen years through all of your
movies.
Please watch over your loving
family..
God bless you John . You are always in our prayers.

Paulamarie Kuhn

August 6, 2012

Todsy is your third anniversary when our lord called you home.We will always
remember the boy door..giving us great memories of our teen years through all of your movies.
Please watch over your loving
family..
God bless you John . Your always in our prayers.

Paulamarie Kuhn

August 6, 2012

Thank you so much for all of your work. I get so emotional everytime I watch any of your films. Thanks for the tears, the laughs, and having your movies to watch all throughout the years growing up. Words cannot express how beautiful your films are. Only some of the very best ever made. Thank you for that.

Laine Johnson

February 6, 2012

you made me laugh you made me smile. made thru the 1980s with a better outlook on life because of you i will miss you and your films

michael meyer

January 23, 2012

Just watched Clark Griswold get through another Christmas. Thanks, John, for getting us to see the Griswold in all of us.

Rebekah Bliss

December 8, 2011

This is a tribute and a thanks for a type of healing connected to Home Alone,
I have anxiety disorder and at different times have panic episodes. This year, I got Home Alone recorded on my DVR and when my dog passed in 2009 I just couldn't take it. Over the summer, I guess I started watching Home Alone once a week! Now in November, I have found that watching the movie, especially the scene inside the church with music, stops the panic and lowers my heart rate! Whatever it is, I am grateful, something is there maybe it is John's love or spirit?? Thanks John for making all these movies, they are solace to the heart and mind for me.

Mary Wier

November 22, 2011

you are missed beyond belief.i loved all your movies. the movie industry has lost a genius.i was shocked to hear of your passing and i still cant believe you are gone.god bless you and i hope you knew how much your fans loved you.

lea bougadis

August 18, 2011

Today is your second anniversary when our Lord called you home. May you watch over your family & know you are truly missed .We take this time for thanking you for opening up our hearts to relive our teenage dreams through your many films..God Bless you John ..

Paula Kuhn

August 6, 2011

I just wanted to say how wonderful your movies are.. i always had a sense of elevation after i watched them because they are not just movies..they are small pieces of our lives that you skilfully put together and presented by you as a fairytale of humble but yet immense emotional proportions ...your passing away was sad but your movies will live to describe your true character since through them we discovered new wonderful people and learned that small things are the most important ..so farewell and r.i.p.

Panos

May 31, 2011

John,
I am a nobody but have one big thing in common with you,I know and feel every movie that your were involved with. I only dream that I could have been able to meet the skillful man behind the movies that make me live life. I grew ups similar always my myself. I truly miss your film expression and hope you know how ICONIC, RESPECTED, LEGENDARY, and just missed you are!!!

Nate Allen Small town Kentucky guy...

Nate Allen

May 25, 2011

I grew up loving so many of his movies. You are missed. no one has come after you too compare.

Jacob

May 23, 2011

just remembering how you made so much sense with a sense of humor and wishing you were still here to help make movies like the ones that helped me grow up and become ME...Miss your work and appreciate the mark you left on the industry.
Ann Marie Jyono Doc. film 2006 Deliver Us from Evil. U helped me make decisions about real problems and u dont even know me.

Jyono Ann Marie

May 6, 2011

You were the biggest idol to this chicago filmmaker! May your films live on forever and inspire other filmmakers like myself. you spoke to the teens of chicago with heart, and honesty! RIP

Mike Krumlauf

March 21, 2011

Thank you for the 1980's. Thank you for being the only adult who understood us.

Jeff Gross

March 18, 2011

John, I just want to say how important your films of the 1980's were to me. When I saw them, it told me it was ok to be me. That I didn't have to be someone else. Your films had a great impact on me as a teenager. God Bless you.

Gustavo Chavarin

March 11, 2011

Dear John, thank you for helping me understand that it was okay to be me. Your movies and the music in them helped me through the changes of growing up. I miss your movies, your writing and I speak for many who say they wish you were still here with us. No one understands the mind of a teen like you did. For those of us who grew up in the 80s you were the voice we wish we had.

Donna Teresa

February 6, 2011

THANK YOU John for all your wonderful films.

Dean Lanyon

February 4, 2011

made the best movies ever there will never be another JOHN HUGHES

TEN C

January 31, 2011

John,
I find it hard to believe that we will not be blessed with more of your artistry. I am grateful to have lived in your time. I imagine that some people in the distant future will wonder what it was like. IT WAS FUN! Your movies are still my favorites, and now they are my families' also.
As I write this I keep hearing that old song in my head:
Thanks for the Memories...
Really, Thanks,

Paul Linson

January 24, 2011

Thank you for understanding teenage angst and displaying the commonality and dual individuality of our experiences. Your talents are greatly missed.

Sharon Adams

December 24, 2010

Jon Hughes has inspired me to make movies and I can only hope you be as good as he was as a screenwriter, director and Legend

Shannie Griffin

December 14, 2010

John Hughes' teen movies made a difference in my life just when I was at an age when I was trying to find and define who I was. Simplified morals for teenagers, The Breakfast Club gave you a chance to try on a few personalities as the film drew them together and discounted the differences...

So now I work in film, and one of my dreams is to make a John Hughes (style) teen movie in the hope it may be the defining 90 minutes of other struggling teens one day.

Respect, Mr Hughes, and thank you.

Cliff Donaldsen

November 21, 2010

RIP John Hughes you were the best writter in Hollywood Show biz
the 20th century has ever knew you will be miss alot, and all of your great Films & "The Brat Pack" name will Forever be in Your lagecy!

I grew up in the north shore subrbs of Chicago in and around all of your shooting locations, My mom and aunt went to school in the same building that "The Breakfast Culb" was filmed at, and my aunt lives 2.6 miles from the house in Winnetka where "HOME ALONe" was filmed at and 2.4 miles from "United Trinity Methodist Church" in Wilmet, witch was also used in the filmming of "HOME ALONe" ! She also lives a block in a half north east from the "Sixteen Candles" house where Molly Ringwald fell out of the tree.

Jamie P

November 17, 2010

LOVED U SO ~THANKS FOR HELPING ME MAKE SENSE TO ME.

A FAN
YOU WERE FROM WHERE WE WERE FROM

BEA COMMER

November 9, 2010

That's for all the great time's and for the extra special "Breakfest Club" line's from the real John Bender

Mike Bregan

October 19, 2010

Here was a man that always brought Chicago to the forefront of the movie business. I will always miss him and still today enjoy his movies and catching myself looking for those landmarks he played so well into his movies

Mick

September 15, 2010

Hi to the Hughes family I did not know about his passing u8ntil the Oscar night, and was stunned, I am so grateful for his movies, they help me get through life! Blessings.

mary wier

September 4, 2010

mary wier

September 4, 2010

It's been one year today that God called you
home..thank you for all the wonderful memories
that you gave us through your films. As we sit today
looking into the sky we can hear . Don't You Forget About Me"
& If You Were Here..We will never forget you John Hughes..
Please don't forget us .

Paulamarie Kuhn

August 6, 2010

Thank you for all the wonderful memories you
have given us. Rest in peace .

Paula

August 6, 2010

Simply.. Thank-you.

Eric K

July 21, 2010

Blackhawks won - I'm sure you'd be at the parade today. Stanley Cup's in Chicago!!!

June 11, 2010

Hello John, I discovered you in the mid 90's as a lonely teen watching television growing up in London. Your movies and your voice spoke more to me then others. I sit here trying to write my first feature film and I am at a crisis point in my life. Not knowing who I am or what. I just watched 'She's Having A Baby' and it brought tears to my eyes. This time however I noticed something that I hadn't before. I realized just how close I am to the Alec Baldwin character. I wonder how the character progressed and what caused him to change? And even if that character was you at a certain point in your life? One thing is for sure though. I really miss you man and that voice of yours many of us search for. Thank you John and god bless you. A friend.

Mustapha Kseibati

June 10, 2010

The world has lost a great man. His ability to capture the real life of teenagers was incredible no one else could ever do that. I have children now and have passed these movies on to a whole new generation.Thank You Mr Hughes.My deepest sympathy to your family.

Gail Lacroix

June 3, 2010

He acted and directed some of the great
cult movies in the 1980's and 90's. He made us laugh and cry and he will always be missed.

Ron Clark

April 27, 2010

Thank you, John.

You reflected humanity with a calibre of wit and wisdom typically discovered only in great literary works of centuries past.

You brought those insights to the fore for regular folks, and those regular folks are forever grateful.

You elevated our intellects—
You nurtured our spirits—
You showed us the way, with great style.

We salute you, sir.
Well played. And many happy returns.

Best always...

Jeff G

April 23, 2010

When I was a teenager The Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink made me feel a little less like an outsider and a little more like a human being. Thank you for the Wonderful films you have given us. How lucky we were in the 80's to have someone making movies who was on our side. Rest in Peace John Hughes, you will never be forgotten.

Suzie Z

March 17, 2010

For John...

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California

March 9, 2010

Mr Hughes, During the 80's and 90's I needed your movies. They were there for me when others were not. I had a tough time and the love and humour in your movies made me laff and cry. They also made me want to write screenplays I must have written 10 after watching your movies. Unfortunately my dreams have yet to come to fruition I'm a 9-5 office worker but I will get there. I want to be the guy who writes some films to define my generation I'm 31 so I figure I have a bit of time yet. I'm english with a typical English sense of humour and I feel I'm very quick witted and a lot of this comes from all the suttle jokes in your films that you can spot and the slapstick bits. I see your influence everywhere from Family Guy to The Big Bang Theory. I hope that it helps your family in some way that you were so widely adored and can see your influence in most sitcoms and films from the 90's onwards. Thank you so much!

Alan Edwards

February 25, 2010

In fond memory on your 60th birthday.

Libby

February 18, 2010

In heartfelt memory on your 60th Birthday. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family today.

Martha My Dear in WI

February 18, 2010

You were a genius and wrote who you were...You will be missed always...

Benjamin Stiavnicky

February 17, 2010

I grew up taking John movies in and I Love them all of them.I so sorry to hear of his passing. I will always enjoy his movies. R.I.P John I never met you but I'll never forget you :)
My love and blessing to your family.
My girls love Sixteen Candles and I also love again my love to you and your family. Happy Birthday Mr.John Hughes <3 Gone but not forgotten we will never forget you Mr.Hughes

Antoinette Smith

Antoinette Smith

February 7, 2010

I grew up in Grosse Pointe City and remember John from playing Little League Baseball for one, possibly two years in the minor leagues. I grew up on Washington Road, right next to Rivard Blvd. I remember we were both geeks and terrible baseball players, not that there is anything wrong with that! : > ) We were not friends, unfortunately, just acquaintances. I enjoyed his movies greatly and I believed that his childhood experiences and background gave him great insight into people's character and feelings. Great guy, RIP.

Tom Bertrand

February 3, 2010

Well Done!

You will not be forgotten...

Tom Adamski

January 22, 2010

Will be missed.

Brian Bice

January 20, 2010

What can I say, I didn't know Mr. Hughes personally but growing up watching films like The Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, She's Having A Baby, Home Alone, and Dutch - it seems very apparent that the world became a better place because of him.

Kevin Beck

January 11, 2010

Although this is late in being posted, I have been thinking about this since Johns death. I loved his movies. Growing up in the 80's, I watched his movies over and over and they continue to be a touchstone for me. It doesn't seem right that I now live in a world where John is no longer. I wished he would have made more movies, I am grateful for the ones he did make and write. I hope he is at peace and in a better place now. I hope his family is doing ok without him. John, thank you. Simply put, thank you.

Marcia Myers

January 7, 2010

When things are weird and I just want a break my Hughes collection is there any single one I pick sets it all to rights. Peace. Michelle

Michelle Runnett Bailey

January 3, 2010

John, you are my inspiration as a Chicago born artist to create from my heart and never say no. Much love and respect to you and your work.

Mike Krumlauf

January 2, 2010

His movies changed the way other teen movies are written and directed. His movies both inspire and pacifiy. The Breakfast Club will probably be my favourite of Mr Hughes' films and as long as I have a copy of that in my house his memory will live on. 'I wont forget about you'.
I'm from England but thats not in the drop down box so I've selcted a place where I want to visit.

Darren Garland

December 28, 2009

I am forever grateful to have John Hughes' movies in my life. I watch them and it takes me back to a simpler time in my life. The movies were true to life and very entertaining. The music that was in the movies are great and automatically connect you to the movies. Thanks John Hughes

Jerry Corder

December 25, 2009

Woke up to my clock radio playing "True" by Spandau Ballet this lazy December Sunday morning. Always think of John Hughes and 16 Candles, my all-time favorite movie, whenever I hear that. Thought a long time about his genius, his contributions, etc. and wanted his family to know that people are still thinking of him. This will be your first Christmas without him. Rely on family and friends to get you through.

M. K.

December 13, 2009

For John...

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio

October 23, 2009

Thank you for your wonderful movies. They will always be close to my heart.

Erica Eldridge

October 21, 2009

All the movies are a treasure and they are so dear to my heart....You must have had a wonderful heart ! I can at least offer you a "thank you".What a inspiration you were and always will be to my generation and beyond.

October 20, 2009

john hughes was a great guy the movies he made was very good and i no it's hard when you lose a son just thank god now he is with the best now he will be up in heaven with the best.i will miss his movies one day we will meet again thank god for great memory ' god bless the john hughes and family 'a friend'

danny gasavage

October 17, 2009

My teenage years were grown in Hermosillo Sonora Mexico. During my High School years in COBACH Norte in the 80's, your movies made me easier to cope with reality. Great Memories, Thanks for your Films and Work. Sincerily Julian G Belmonte [email protected]

Julian G Belmonte

October 16, 2009

You made so many of us who we are today. Your movies were the only ones to ever hit what we were going through. Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, Pretty in Pink we all related cause we were feeling the same way. TY John Hughes for making growing up alittle more tolerable.

Heather Anderson

September 30, 2009

We lost one of the great men of all time and director-is a very great lose to the world of fans an friends and there will be noe one else like him ever...

Gregg Lamarwest..

Gregg Lamarwest

September 9, 2009

For John

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio

September 8, 2009

As a 40 Year old I grew up and loved the films of Mr Hughes.

Thanks for some great memories and a lot of laughs.

RIP

Liam Clarke

September 8, 2009

My condolences to your family. I had a very happy childhood, and when I look back, most memories are linked to your films, when I used to sit and watch them on my own or in company of friends. You'll be missed, John.

Gabi Silva

September 8, 2009

Mr.Hughes thank you for being the voice and touching the hearts of millions of teenagers.

Ed P

September 4, 2009

Thank you for all the joy and pain.
Picture shows, second balcony, was the place we'd meet, second seat, go Dutch treat, you were sweet.

Thank you for seeing me again.
Though we go, on our seperate ways, still the memory stays, for always, my heart says, Danke Schoen.

Greg F

August 30, 2009

In 2001 we moved away from the North Shore for a while. I was able to say that we had lived where they shot Uncle Buck and Sixteen Candles and HOME ALONE (and there actually WAS an outdoor skating rink set up in the park during winter break) and then everyone had an idea of where we came from. In those years away from Chicago, I could not watch Ferris Bueller without crying from homesickness. Thank you, John, for the images that still mean so much to our family.

And yes, every January we ask my husband if he got "jelly of the month" for his bonus.

Sandy, Bob, Patrick, and Kathleen Doyle

August 29, 2009

Fpr John

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio

August 29, 2009

Rest in peace, Mr. Hughes. Your movies made it easier to be a teenager in the 80s. Your legacy of laughter will never be forgotten.

Frank A.

August 24, 2009

Nancy & family- As a former classmate of yours, I want you to know how much you 2 were thought about at our recent 40th GBN reunion. Who could have known that in a few days following, we would hear the news of Johns' passing. My heart & prayers go out to you and all in the family. John left a legacy that you should be proud of and his work impacted millions. Peace and love, Shelley (Waidner) Kleypas

Shelley (Waidner) Kleypas

August 23, 2009

My heart goes out to Mr. Hugh's family and friends. I am sorry for your loss. I have never written on a guest book of someone I never knew personally, but as one of John Hugh's many fans I felt compelled to say I am just glad I got to know a glimpse of his sense of humor and talent by seeing every one of the movies he directed and wrote. I still own several of them and no other director's movies have truly touched and influenced so many people in such a way. His insights and honest portrayal of real life on the big screen time and time again are second to none. Thanks for countless laughs, hilarious quotes and wonderful characters. I'll miss them all.

Elizabeth (Charlotte, NC)

August 23, 2009

One of our best Christmas' as an adult family with our children's children watching HOME Alone after finishing Christmas dinner. All of my kids together! Call us the Huxtubles if you wish. A good time with a good movie celebrating the birth of our Savior! Thank you John Hughes!

carol hall

August 21, 2009

Hope, Guidance, and Strength.

John 16:3
terrence jordan

August 19, 2009

A great Chicago guy. Northwest side and a Taft H.S. kid. Wonderful to see a local boy make good. Thanks John for giving me and countless others so many laughs. Thanks for allowing us to just sit back and forget our troubles. You retired too soon and left us way too soon. Thanks John.

Paul Heyden

August 19, 2009

I am deeply saddened by the loss of this man who meant so much to me during our Leo Burnett days. I was John's secretary during his time at Leo B, and what a crazy fun time we all had. I will always remember the one-on-one conversations we shared & all the loony-ness he brought to our creative group. One of my fondest memories is the day his first child was born.....you'd think he was the "only" person who had ever had a child born to themself. Listening to him boast about this feat, you truly believed that he had truly invented the miracle of birth. Thank you John for the fun memories. May you be at peace.

Bonnie Gruchalski

August 17, 2009

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