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Christopher Abeyta Obituary

Abeyta, Sgt. Christopher Paul age 23, loving son of Paul and Barbara (nee Smith), only grandson of Elvira Abeyta and Jim Vezina, beloved nephew of Tom (Chris) Smith, Tracy (Dave) Lohmar, Robert M. (Maureen) Smith, T.J. (Molly) Smith, Margo (Rene) Canales, Peilo Garcia, Victor Garcia, Tony Garcia, Lonny Abeyta, Fred Garcia, Roy Garcia and Sandy (Junior) Scardini, dear cousin of Kristy Barber, Emma Canales, Erica Canales, Ariel Abeyta, Steven Smith, Carrie Smith, Michael Smith, Bill Paul, Samantha Paul, Mathew Smith, Patrick Smith and Freddy Garcia. Sgt. U.S. Army, fought in Iraq, died while serving his country in Afghanistan. Honorary Pall Bearers: Jon Mireles, Steven Smith, Michael Smith, Bill Paul, Nick Mireles and Dave Demro. Christopher's grandfather, the late Robert F. Smith, served in the U.S. Army in the Korean War and his uncle, Robert M. Smith, served in the U.S. Army during the Viet Nam War. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the children of SPC Norman Cains c/o the American Legion Post #691, 14817 S. Pulaski, Midlothian, IL 60445. SPC Norman Cains was a hero who lost his life along side of Christopher, leaving behind a wife and two children. Funeral services will be Saturday, March 28, 2009 beginning with prayers at 9:15 a.m. at the Hickey Memorial Chapel, 4201 W. 147th St., Midlothian, followed by a Mass at 10 a.m. at St. Christopher Church. Interment will be at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery in Elwood, IL. Visitation Friday, 2 to 9 p.m. at the funeral home. 708-385-4478.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 22, 2009.
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We love and miss you so much Chris! Always know that we are always thinking about you! Rest in Heaven! #neverforgotten

Kristy Barber

September 7, 2018

You will never be forgotten.

Veronika Gaidadzisova

Friend

September 6, 2018

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Abeyta Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Christopher P. Abeyta US Army Sergeant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Charlie Gili

October 4, 2016

Seven years, I see your smile every day.Still miss ya buddy.

March 15, 2016

March 15, 2013
To the family and friends of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
It has truly been my honor to sign Christopher's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Christopher will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

Peggy Childers

March 22, 2013

In memory & honor of Sgt Christopher Abeyta,it has been 4 years since he has passed. We remain grateful to him for his service and sacrifice he made.

March 20, 2013

Rest In Peace, Christopher. My prayers are with you and your family now and always. I love you Aunt Elvira!

Mary Scott

November 11, 2012

With our deepest condolences.


John 11: 1-44

Mary Kanada

July 19, 2012

Sgt. David O'Steen

May 22, 2012

To the family and friends of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
Always remembering Christopher. "Some gave all."

Peggy Childers

March 15, 2012

Words cannot express the gratitude I feel for your brave service and the sorrow I feel for those who love and miss you.

Renee

February 24, 2012

Sgt. Christopher Abeyta, I came across your handsome face while reviewing those who have been lost in a fight for freedom and democracy. God Bless your family and the pain & suffering they must bear. Please know there are those who care about your sacrifice

February 18, 2012

Dear Abeyta Family,
Thank you for your sacrifce for America. May he always be remembered as a heroe of freedom.

Julio Rodriguez

August 30, 2011

Last Saturday, my husband and I participated in our local "Run for the Fallen" event. We walked in memory of your son, Christopher Paul Abeyta. While we walked, we prayed for him and those who are still in Irag and Afghanistan. When we finished, we rang the large bronze bell in his memory and planted a flag for him. We are so thankful for his service and will think of him and his sacrifice each time we raise our American flag on our farm.

becky Metzger

August 25, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss.CHRISTOPHER PAUL ABEYTA is resting in peace. He will not be forgotten. GOD BLESS

L Greene

May 29, 2011

Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless everyone

A Proud Military Mom.

Nancy

May 19, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
Please accept my remembrance of Christopher on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

March 16, 2011

Sgt Chris Abeyta, my hero cousin, will always be in our hearts and prayers. Chris was visited so much yesterday (2 Year Anniversary) at Memorial Park in Midlothian, IL. and at Abe Lincoln Cemetery, Flowers were set and tears were drawn. He is missed so much. God Bless you!!

Kristy Barber

March 16, 2011

To the family of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.

L Neal

March 15, 2011

Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.

Elizabeth Raab

January 14, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
Remembering Christopher on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

March 15, 2010

Chris- we love you so much! You will always in my prayers. I am always looking at pictures of us growing up and remembering all the great and exciting years we had. I thank you for all you've done!! You mean everything to this family and we owe you a lot for serving our country.

Kristy Mercer

February 22, 2010

February 22, 2010

On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.

Donna Gillette

December 5, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Kenna Larra

November 10, 2009

To the Abeyta Family,

I am thinking of your son today on this 8th anniversary of 9/11. I pray that you will find peace and please know that the sacrifice that Christopher made will never be forgotten.

Colleen

September 11, 2009

Dear Abeyta Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Christopher. I love my freedom and I appreciate his service and sacrifice. I accompanied Cindy Schmit on Sunday and said a prayer for Christopher. I felt honored to be there. I pray for comfort for you all and hope that peace will find you soon.

Diane Boler

September 8, 2009

I visitied my Mom & Dad yesterday so I also made a visit to your loved one. I left some roses and said a silent prayer.Christopher will not be forgotten. It was nice to see someone had visited him . There were two blue roses. I promise I will visit him when I am there to spend a moment with my parents. God Bless & keep your boy in the Palm of His Hand

September 7, 2009

Sorry I forget I think I wrote a different name instead of the family of Sgt Christopher Abeyta. I am so sorry for not realizing it until it was to late please forgive me.

Betty Nielsen

September 5, 2009

To the family of PFC Hardt, My deepest sympathy for the pain you are going through. No one should have to go through what you are going through right now. My name is Betty Nielsen with Freedom Quilts the founder of this non profit organization. We make it a point to try and make a free quilt for the parent and spouse of our heroes. Hopefully if I have the corrected address you should be receiving a quilt from us to honor a true hero that gave it his all. My email if you wish to contact me is [email protected] and my website is www.freedomquilts.net. The quilts stand for love and comfort in hope that you will always know that we as Americans do care.

Betty Nielsen

September 5, 2009

Dear Brave SGT Christopher Abeyta,

The willow bends on God's green Earth, but its spirit is left intact. Sometimes it breaks and we mourn for something which was so fine. But in its loss we remember days spent in its shadow, sheltered from the hot summer sun. Though our time with you on this same Earth is now broken, those closest to you will always remember the days when you were young and strong and gave them the same comfort and memories as the willow which was so fine. Sleep well brave son of a grateful nation. May God always cradle you in His arms.

James M. Koster

August 27, 2009

To thw family of Sgt, Abeyta I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry for our Nation's loss of another brave hero.Your wish that memorials be made to Spc Cain's family speaks in volumes about you and your son. Your son is buried in the same cemetery as my parents. I lost my Dad in Nov so I think your son is close by. Please get in touch with me I would love to honor your son when I visit my Dad. I think I met you at Cantigny in a troop support concert.I keep you and yours in my prayers. Your son will not be forgotten.

Cindy Schmit

August 10, 2009

Remembering today the 4 soldiers lost and remembering Chris. He will be remembered. My heartfelt prayers continue to go out to all the families.

The Kaspers

July 31, 2009

To the Abeyta family,

There are never simple explanations or answers when a parent outlives a child, even if the "child" is an adult, as your son was.

And yet his choice to wear such a clearly identifiable uniform to work every day will never be forgotten, nor will his and your sacrifice be ignored or dismissed by those who never had and never will wear such a uniform, such as myself.

May God bless your family and friends with strength during this time of sorrow!

Sarah Jennings

May 16, 2009

To the family and friends of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta, I wish to add my condolences for the loss of Sgt. Christopher. I wish to invite you family and friends to join us at Jesse Brown VA in Chicago on June 2nd, 2009, when we will remember Christopher and our other fallen heroes and veterans. We would be honored to have you join us. God Bless You. Lynne O'Donnell, RN, MSN, ANP

Lynne O'Donnell

May 15, 2009

To the Abeyta family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Christophers' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04

Suzanne MacDaniel

May 2, 2009

Prayer for Peace

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Amen

Stephanie Rafoss

April 24, 2009

Christopher, god bless you soldier and thank you for your service to a grateful nation, forever we will mourn you and all of our fallen heroes both before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq while on a routine patrol. My promise to him was that I would never forget him but also those fallen before and after him. When I made that promise to him the day we laid him to his final resting place I did not realize how often I would need to make entries on Legacy and it just breaks my heart knowing that so many other families have and will continue to feel the pain that our family has endured. Since the loss of my nephew I have written on every single legacy page of every fallen soldier and included a photo of my nephew. I encourage you to do the same to Aaron's page. I have done this to honor my nephew but to let you know Christopher is not alone and my nephew is with him and they are now in God's gracious hands waiting for us to join them one day. Abeyta family from the bottom of my heart please except my sincere condolences and may the memories of your Hero carry you through each day for he will never be forgotten!

Gary Tolle

April 19, 2009

To the family of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta:
Christopher gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

April 17, 2009

To the parents and family, I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to heal you as He gives comfort to you today and for the rest of your lives.

http://goldstarfamilysupportgroup.com

In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR

debbi

April 10, 2009

The staff at Troop Outreach would like to extend our deepest condolences to the family of Sgt. Christopher P. Abeyta. May God Bless you all and keep you in his care.
Lyris E. Spencer-C.E.O. of Troop Outreach

Lyris Spencer Troop Outreach

April 6, 2009

SGT CHRISTOPHER ABEYTA
you are my hero may god keep you in his arms forever

Gary Allain

April 3, 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. I was lucky enough to just meet Sgt. Abeyta a couple months ago. We were on pass together in Qatar. I had a few drinks with him throughout our pass there. I am terribly sorry for your loss. He will not be forgotten.
My condolences,
Spc. Ortega

March 31, 2009

I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt Christopher Abeyta. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!

(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.myspace.com/tulsaok1nurse

Gale Poindexter

March 30, 2009

Christopher your sacrifice will never be forgotten. I am so grateful, a mere thankyou is no where near enough. Rest in peace and may God bless you.x

Saorse G

March 30, 2009

My most deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your son, one of our nation's heros. His memories along with your unheard of thoughtfulness will live on for generations to come through your kindness to the Cains family.

May God bless you.

March 29, 2009

Dearest Abeyta Family,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
I appreciate Sgt. Abeyta service to our
country and for me and my family.
Words cannot truly express my gratitude.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Connie Velasquez

March 29, 2009

Aunt Elvira, Jim, Paulie, Barb, Margo and Lonny,
We are so sorry about Christopher. We are praying for all of you. I will make sure that my kids know all about Christopher and what a true hero he will always be.
Love Always, Mary Margaret, Tim, Xavier and Gabrielle Scott

March 29, 2009

To The Family of Sgt. Christopher Abeyta,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your only son. There are no words to adequately express our sympathy to you in this great loss and our gratitude to your son for fighting in a war to protect our freedom. May God watch over you in these difficult days. You will continue to be in our prayers, as of course, is Christopher. His and your sacrifice will NEVER be forgotten.

The Scully Family

March 28, 2009

REST IN PEACE SGT. ABEYTA, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

SHIRLEY DONEY

March 28, 2009

My deepest condolences on your tremendous loss. My son is in the Navy and I can't imagine what you're going through right now. Please remember you're not grieving alone, others share your pain. Without brave men like Sgt Christopher Abeyta, I would not have the freedom I enjoy every day. I feel it's my duty now to pay respect to him for his ultimate sacrifice. It's a small thing on my part but it's the least I can do. Christopher and his family have sacrificed so much. God bless you in your time of need and bring you peace.

Kerin Hearn

March 28, 2009

My deepest sympathies to all of you in the loss of Christopher. He was on a very honorable mission helping the people of Afghanistan. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

M Brinker

March 28, 2009

Dear Paul & Barbara -
I first heard the sad news about Christopher while watching the news.
Christopher was a very brave man and I salute him. The name Abeyta will always have a special place in my heart. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy at this sad time. Stay strong and be proud. My thoughts and prayers are with you. SGT. Christopher Abeyta may you rest in peace!

Angie Gomulka

March 28, 2009

My deepest thoughts, sympathy and appreciation go out to you and your family. Losing a child is a very devastating and life altering. Believe me, I know. I did not know you but would like to thank you for everything you have done to serve and honor our great country. So thank you so very much from my heart and soul.

Gloria

March 28, 2009

March 27, 2009

You will be remembered in all of our hearts as in the rest of this world. You were born a child and died a hero. Thank you for serving our country and laying down your life for others. Your couragesness and strong will will be respected and honored throughout our town. We appreciate everything you've done for our country. As a fallen angel you will be missed but honored. Our deepest condolences.

Hushka Family

March 27, 2009

The family of Charlene, Edith and Robert Jr. and grandchildren in California send to you their deepest condolences on the loss of Christopher, who was Robert Jr. and Edith Abeyta's second cousin. May the peace of your many happy memories with your son stay forever in your hearts.
Although we've never met, Christopher's courage is recognizable to all.

Charlene Abeyta

March 27, 2009

Chris, thank you for the sacrifice that you have made for this country. I send my condolences to the family for the loss of not only a son or friend but a great hero in all of our hearts.

LaDonna Williams

March 27, 2009

My thoughts are with you asa you go through this grieving proccess thank God for the men and woman of our country who all give the ultimate sacrifice. My prayers go out to the family and friend that are missing your precious son.

Teresa Hogan

March 27, 2009

Thank you for your precious sacrifice to our country I hope your family can find peace in knowing how many people are touched in your time of sorrow.

Teresa Hogan

March 27, 2009

Sgt. Abeyta, thank you for your ultimate sacrifice so that our country and our world may one day live in peace. God bless you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Westberg/Rockway Family

March 27, 2009

Our family wishes to pass along our condolences on the loss of your son, a hero in all of our hearts. He will now stand at the gates of heaven stand guard with all of the other fallen hero's.

Tony, Charmaine, and Kortne Lill
The Proud Family of Sgt Eric A Lill
KIA, Iraq, July 6, 2007
Forever in our Hearts.
Remember the Fallen: WWW.ILFREEDOMRUN.ORG

Anthony Lill

March 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Buikema

March 27, 2009

I was watching the news and learned about the passing of this young man and i just wanted to say thank you for protecting and serving your country...my condolences to the Abeyta family...one of my good friends passed a little over a yr ago in iraq and this brought back alot of emotions...Sgt Abeyta may you rest in peace

lionel

March 26, 2009

No words can describe the sorrow in our hearts for the loss of your dear son Chris. God Bless him and your family and all who have gone before him.

The Twombly Family

March 26, 2009

My sympathy in the loss of your child. As a mother I feel your pain. Thank you to Christopher for giving of himself to serve his country-he is a hero. God Bless you all.

March 26, 2009

Final Roll Call

Did you hear the sad news today?
A brave American Soldier, SGT Christopher Abeyta has passed away.
Called by the Supreme Commander over all.
Today he has made his final roll call.

Come Brothers-In-Arms; let us reverently bow and pray
For our valiant comrade, who has fallen this day.
We’ll drape his casket with a banner of beautiful hues,
Those glorious American colors: red, white and blue.

That star spangled banner he gallantly fought to defend,
Unyielding and undaunted, he fought to win.
He fought bravely and he fought his very best.
Now the Supreme Commander grants him, “eternal rest.

With dignity and honor, we’ll commit his body to the ground,
The bugler will sound “Taps” and we’ll fire the volley rounds.
The final military honors we’ll render somberly and ever so sadly;
“Old Glory” we’ll solemnly precisely fold and reverently give to his family.

Each Memorial Day we will recall Christopher’s name,
And attest that his supreme sacrifice was not in vain;
For this lasting legacy he gave to all generations;
“It’s honorable to respect our flag and to defend our great nation.”

So close ranks fellow warriors, for our ranks are thinning.
We must keep on fighting and keep on winning.
With pride and honor we’ll march and stand tall,
And we’ll proudly - proudly - salute “Old Glory”
‘til we join Christopher at our final roll call.

Farewell SGT Christopher Abeyta - Be At Ease; Rest In Peace

Carroll R. Michaud,USAF Ret'd

March 26, 2009

The Final Salute

“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to SGT Christopher Abeyta our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Christopher. And to Christopher it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made for his country while opposing enemy forces in Afghanistan. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Christopher, you are a brave American Warrior, a true Patriot and a national Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the 1,409 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Christopher’s family and loved ones.

Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109

For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud

March 26, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Stacy Johnson/Littrell

March 26, 2009

To Barb and Paul My heart and prays to you and your family.

Sherrie Littrell

March 26, 2009

My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Sgt Christopher Abeyta, with Profound Gratitude for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

The price Christopher and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Abeyta family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago

"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~

May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Christopher and quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.

Garnet Jenkins

March 25, 2009

March 25, 2009

March 25, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Razo Family

March 24, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Auntie Pat & Al

March 24, 2009

I had the honor to meet Christopher a few times at my home.
We spoke about life, the war and serving our country. Please accept my condolences to his entire family. Your family's concern for the Cains family is indeed comendable. I am pround to have met Christopher. I write this with a heavy heart. God Bless Him and I thank him for his service to our country. SGT. RC Hoffman USMC Vietnam 68-69

RC Hoffman

March 23, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Hertl Family

March 23, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

March 23, 2009

We would like to extend our condolences to your family. Even at a time of great loss to your family, your concern for the Cains family is very comendable. It reminds us of Jesus word's qouted by Paul that "there's more happiness in giving than there is in receiving"(Acts 20:35) May the God who provides us peace, hope, and comfort through prayer and his holy word the Bible sustain you all in the days ahead.

Kevin Chapital

March 22, 2009

My very deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You are a wonderful family asking memorials be given to the Cains family. May God Bless You

Pat Kelly

March 22, 2009

My very deepest sympathy goes to you and
your family in the loss of your precious
soldier. How kind of you to ask that
memorials be given to the Cains family.
I will be sending a memorial to the fund
tomorrow. May God bless you for your
sacrifice.

Renata Swarczewski

March 22, 2009

I was so moved that in your time of grief you unselfishly directed people to support the Cains family. Your son would be so proud of you.
I thank you as one military mom to another for your sacrifice.

Pat Gerace

March 22, 2009

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The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

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Ways to honor Christopher Abeyta's life and legacy
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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