RoxAnne Lynn Rochester

1961 - 2014

RoxAnne Lynn Rochester obituary, 1961-2014, Venice, FL

RoxAnne Rochester Obituary

Rochester, RoxAnne Lynn 53, of Venice, Florida, passed away on Saturday, April 12. RoxAnne was born in Des Plaines, Illinois, on October 4, 1961 to Richard R. Rochester and Florenceen DeGrazio Rochester. She graduated from Glenbrook North High School in 1979 and received her Bachelor's degree from St. Mary's College in 1983. Roxanne went on to receive her law degree from Loyola University of Chicago School of Law in 1989. She married Jay Marhoefer on November 6, 1998. RoxAnne practiced law since 1989, most recently as a staff attorney for the Circuit Court of Cook County. She was an active volunteer for both community and legal organizations. She co-founded the Community Outreach Group for Old St. Pats church in the 1990s and was a board member of the Womens' Bar Association of Illinois for the last ten years. For 20 years, RoxAnne served meals every two weeks to women at Deborah's Place. RoxAnne is survived by her husband, Jay Marhoefer; her two sons, John and Dominic; her mother; sister and three brothers. A viewing will be held at Farley Funeral Home in Venice, Florida, from 5:00 p.m - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday, April 16. The funeral will be held at Epiphany Cathedral, Venice, Florida, at 1:00 p.m. Thursday, April 17, followed by burial at Venice Memorial Gardens. Chicago visitation will be held at Old St. Pat's Church from 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 24 followed by a memorial Mass at 7:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to either the Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, Florida or Deborah's Place in Chicago.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Apr. 16, 2014.
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Roxanne was a classmate from elementary school all the way through high school in Northbrook. She was such a sweet, kind person. I did not learn of her passing until just today. I know it's late, but very sorry to hear.

Robert Carlson

February 23, 2018

Jay, John and Dominic:
You have my deepest sympathy. I just got this sad news. She touched so many lives and will surely missed by all her family and friends; and never forgotten.
Jacqueline Bass

J Bass

August 12, 2014

I knew Roxanne for 20 years through our connection at Old St. Pats. She was a beautiful lady inside and out. The world has lost one of it's treasures.
With sympathy and hope,

Barbara Moriarty

May 11, 2014

RoxAnne's grace, wit and passion were a gift to all she encountered and will continue in fond memories. Her commitment to Justice in her various realms and far beyond will also live on as a model for the many whose lives she touched.

Patrick Murphy

April 24, 2014

I was so saddened to hear about RoxAnne, but know with confidence that she is in a place of healing and peace. My husband Patrick and I worked with RoxAnne on the Justice Initiative at Old St. Pat's and her passion for making the world a better place was always on display. An amazing gift to the world.

Elizabeth Durkin

April 24, 2014

I am so sorry and saddened to hear about Roxanne. Like everyone who knew her, I have fond memories of her and her family as well . You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Nadine Gunderson

April 19, 2014

Jay, John and Dominic:
You have our deepest sympathy. We will never know why things happen. But God has a bigger plan for all of us. She touched so many lives and will surely missed by all her family and friends; and never forgotten.
John, John G. and William G. Domit

John Domit

April 18, 2014

RoxAnne, I have known you since the 6th grade. You always were so positive, energetic, and had the biggest smile. I have thought of you often and was looking forward to the next reunion in hopes we could catch up. Know that you have impacted this world in a wonderful and positive way. You will be missed by all. My deepest condolences to your beautiful sons and family. I found several letters you wrote when we were younger and close with what you wrote me: God Bless You. Be at peace.

Maria Horvat

April 17, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the entire Rochester family! I am so sad to hear about Roxanne. Of course I have many fond memories of Roxanne and cherish all the fun times we all had together living on the cul de sac as next door neighbors.

Robin Richman Lazarus

April 17, 2014

My heart goes out to John, Dominic and the Rochester family. Rox was a close friend, ex-roommate and trusted advisor. She was always a bight light with a sharp wit, great sense of humor and big heart. She was tireless. Always stretching herself too the limit. Always putting others before herself. All because she had this incredible sense of responsibility to and caring for the people she loved, giving back to the community, helping the disadvantaged and to her career. Rox, you've always taken care of others. Now it's your time to get some peace and rest in the arms of our Lord. You will be missed immeasurably, but never forgotten.

Lare Arra

April 17, 2014

Jay, John, and Dominic,
We are so very sorry to hear of the news about Roxanne. You and Roxanne were the first friends that we met at the FXW welcome night for our children going to Pre-School. Your family has always held a special place in our hearts. We will always cherish her smile and warm welcoming hugs when she greeted us. John and Dominic have a beautiful legacy that she has provided for them and you. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers as we celebrate Easter and her life. Take care,
Bill, Cathy, Charlie, & Claire Corrigan

April 16, 2014

My deepest sympathies to Roxanne's family. Her cheerful smile and energy have been missed here at the ULC and will continue to be missed.

Fern Alliosn

April 16, 2014

I met Roxanne at the Memorial Service for her dad. She was a warm and sincere person. Her family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Corene Frick

April 16, 2014

Very sorry to hear of Roxanne's passing. My dad was Roxanne's godfather and he is very saddened to hear the news. Wishing strength and comfort to Mrs. Rochester, Dominique, Rick, Ron, Rory, and all the Rochester family.

Jim Hofman

April 16, 2014

Deepest sympathy to those she has left behind - take comfort in the knowledge that you will see each other again one day! She always had such a loving heart and warm smile for everyone - she is probably a greeter in heaven!

Laurie Wells Adkisson

April 16, 2014

My deepest condolences to the Rochester family, Jay and the boys. What a giving person. And full of light. A gift to many.
-Denise Power

April 16, 2014

She is, and will forever be, an incredible inspiration regarding how we should all maintain our faith, to spread the word of Christ and to live our lives in the ways of Christ, regardless of the pain and fear we endure. Her beautiful smile is now in Heaven. May we all live up to the example she set. God bless her and her family.

David Brown

April 16, 2014

OUR MOST HEARTFELT SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY ROXANNE WAS TRULY SPECIAL TO THE WOMEN O DEBORAHS PLACE!! R.I.P. LOVE SABRINA

April 16, 2014

I will Miss "Miss" Roxanne, she was the heart of all of whom she reached out to comfort & just be a great listener! Our establishment Deborahs Place will miss her dearly!Gave all she had & was to make our days more fun, & interesting!My condolences to her family!!!

Kay Graham

April 16, 2014

Heaven rejoices in welcoming Roxanne as we mourn the loss of a wonderful lady. My thoughts and prayers go to John, Dominic, and Jay. May they feel the love of God surround them during this difficult time, and may they be comforted knowing that she is in the arms of our Lord.

Irene Lynch

April 16, 2014

RoxAnne, your light and grace will forever shine brightly ~ over GBN, OSP, Deborah's Place and on the Marathon path. You taught me countless lessons in Life, Love and Law. Your spirit lingers forever more!

Stephanie Leese-Emrich

April 16, 2014

I was saddened by this news yet I know Roxanne will be a guiding light in each of our lives going forward just as she was when she was here with us. I had the pleasure of knowing her since we were 11 years old and in the 6th grade and from that day forward she was a blessing to know and love!! She was always at the top of our class and had a great sense of humor and was adored by all. She will be greatly missed.

Barbara Gorman

April 16, 2014

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